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Katje
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 40
United States
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Buxom Enigma
I've only had two partners that were bald in the pubes department, and I'll have to say not plucking strays off my tongue was a nice change.
However, since I'm rarely fully bald myself, I won't expect him to be. I do like a close trim versus a jungle. I don't like my nose full of random curls, so neither does he! (rarely .. there was one guy but meh)
My one ex just was careful with the razor, and generous with the moisturizing lotion to keep his sac smooth.
However, since I'm rarely fully bald myself, I won't expect him to be. I do like a close trim versus a jungle. I don't like my nose full of random curls, so neither does he! (rarely .. there was one guy but meh)
My one ex just was careful with the razor, and generous with the moisturizing lotion to keep his sac smooth.
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It's an interesting thing, to say the least. I love the occasional unexpected sharp swat to my rear end. I have a few friend who do it just to hear me squeal!
But aside from that, I just like the pink-bottom swats during especially vigorous sex. Nothing too hardcore, and not ALL the time.
There's just something deliciously naughty about it, and like someone else said before, the vibrations through that area don't hurt the idea at all! LOL
But aside from that, I just like the pink-bottom swats during especially vigorous sex. Nothing too hardcore, and not ALL the time.
There's just something deliciously naughty about it, and like someone else said before, the vibrations through that area don't hurt the idea at all! LOL
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I love it. So few men these days seem to have basic manners.
My four year old DAUGHTER races to hold doors for people, and chats away at them, to boot.
But men? It's gracious, polite, and can be incredibly sexy. I can count on both hands the number of times a door has been held open/opened for me, and that's sad.
My four year old DAUGHTER races to hold doors for people, and chats away at them, to boot.
But men? It's gracious, polite, and can be incredibly sexy. I can count on both hands the number of times a door has been held open/opened for me, and that's sad.
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I think it's like another member posted: There's a FANTASY aspect that is completely undeniably sexy.
Do I love the thought of my lover cumming inside me, sans protection? YES. It feels amazing. It's not even the whole risky side, at all. Do I fantasize about the risk? Sometimes. That's been with specific partners. The fetish aspect is HAWT.
In reality? NO. I'm the single mother of a girl who was conceived while on the shot, for crying out loud!
The fantasy (in this case) is better than the reality.
No glove, no love!
Do I love the thought of my lover cumming inside me, sans protection? YES. It feels amazing. It's not even the whole risky side, at all. Do I fantasize about the risk? Sometimes. That's been with specific partners. The fetish aspect is HAWT.
In reality? NO. I'm the single mother of a girl who was conceived while on the shot, for crying out loud!
The fantasy (in this case) is better than the reality.
No glove, no love!
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I'm AWFUL about posting thank-you's on walls! I DO read and LOVE getting comments ... I just tend to not post because I forget. Now, if someone messages me, or tells me what they think in a chat, I ALWAYS say thank you.
I have a handful of followers, and to YOU GUYS, I give the biggest thanks -- I mean, f'reals, how much of an awesome feeling to know that you want ALERTS when I post something new!?
I thank EVERYONE who reads me. Even if you don't comment, I thank you.
I have a handful of followers, and to YOU GUYS, I give the biggest thanks -- I mean, f'reals, how much of an awesome feeling to know that you want ALERTS when I post something new!?
I thank EVERYONE who reads me. Even if you don't comment, I thank you.
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Quote by stephanie
Would it be possible, Just Once, for somebody to mention my name without using the terms 'insane' 'Irish' and 'twat'?
JUST FUCKING ONCE!
xx SF
Steph, a great man, amazing mentor with a flair for words I'd love to have. A hugely creative musician and one of the best friends a girl could hope for!
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Believe it or not, but I've actually called up precincts and just boldly stated that I'm a writer and would like some authentic questions that may be used during an interrogation.
They ask a LOT of question in regards ... but if you get the right one, you're golden. I'd link you to my police connect on here, but I dunno if they want to be "outed" with the badge. I can ask, though.
They ask a LOT of question in regards ... but if you get the right one, you're golden. I'd link you to my police connect on here, but I dunno if they want to be "outed" with the badge. I can ask, though.
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God and this will be a hard one!
First off, I'll toss the now-advisor Milik as my first-ever fave. He not only approved my very first story, but he also sent me my first rejection. It was his friendship and mentoring that kept me throwing submissions in, and also he who talked with me about becoming a mod, as well. Even though I don't chat with him hardly ever anymore, I just want him to know just how much he really had an impact on me. I'll love ya always and forever, Mik.
Her Royal Spriteness is a real nightmare to work with. I mean ... the conditions in which we interact are fabulous! I love her to distraction and will do anything for her! Seriously, though ... she's a badass. She'll call me on something quicker than anyone else will, but she's also not averse to giving advice on occasion. She's my hero.
Ruthie and NymphWriter are two more that will message me with corrections, and also smack my hands when I've been a bad mod. The unicorn rider is a dear friend. And look, Ruthie? No name changes! LOL. Can't forget Lisa either. She was always a top-notch mod who verified and sent back stuff too! Every rejection I've gotten has helped teach me something new.
Buz has always been an amazing friend, and I can't even begin to thank him enough for how much he's helped me in the time I've been here. Supportive, helpful, and just generally an awesome writer, too!
And Steph, a man I CANNOT fail to mention, even though he's no longer a mod. He, in all of his insanity, is a missing part of myself. Even though the Irish twat is so far away, he mentored me, and just overall gave me GREAT freakin' advice when I needed it, be it mod stuff or real life. I miss him terribly, and he'd better read this.
ALL of the mods mean amazing things to me, but those ones are the tops who made the most of an impact on me when I first came to this site, and first joined the mod team.
I love this place!
First off, I'll toss the now-advisor Milik as my first-ever fave. He not only approved my very first story, but he also sent me my first rejection. It was his friendship and mentoring that kept me throwing submissions in, and also he who talked with me about becoming a mod, as well. Even though I don't chat with him hardly ever anymore, I just want him to know just how much he really had an impact on me. I'll love ya always and forever, Mik.
Her Royal Spriteness is a real nightmare to work with. I mean ... the conditions in which we interact are fabulous! I love her to distraction and will do anything for her! Seriously, though ... she's a badass. She'll call me on something quicker than anyone else will, but she's also not averse to giving advice on occasion. She's my hero.
Ruthie and NymphWriter are two more that will message me with corrections, and also smack my hands when I've been a bad mod. The unicorn rider is a dear friend. And look, Ruthie? No name changes! LOL. Can't forget Lisa either. She was always a top-notch mod who verified and sent back stuff too! Every rejection I've gotten has helped teach me something new.
Buz has always been an amazing friend, and I can't even begin to thank him enough for how much he's helped me in the time I've been here. Supportive, helpful, and just generally an awesome writer, too!
And Steph, a man I CANNOT fail to mention, even though he's no longer a mod. He, in all of his insanity, is a missing part of myself. Even though the Irish twat is so far away, he mentored me, and just overall gave me GREAT freakin' advice when I needed it, be it mod stuff or real life. I miss him terribly, and he'd better read this.
ALL of the mods mean amazing things to me, but those ones are the tops who made the most of an impact on me when I first came to this site, and first joined the mod team.
I love this place!
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Quote by tiddlywink
Danny, your kind words are emboldening.
There are some great writers on here -- including you -- and I strive to emulate their quality.
There's a saying that I've always lived by: "If something's worth doing, it's worth doing well."
I hope to submit something soon, though.
I definitely will keep an eye out. I LOVE science fiction and am actually working on a longer sci-fi erotic piece. A friend of mine on another site brought me to the realization that the two work very well in tandem as well as they do apart.
I look forward to seeing your name in our queue!
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Quote by stephanie
And THAT PICTURE is of a Creme Caramel... Which is not in any way a Flan. So there.
xx Steph
Everyone: "EEEEEEEEEEEWWWWWWWWWWW! Mr Chef!"
Me: "*LAUGHS!*"
(But it is.)
Well, several restaurants are making flan all wrong then! That's what theirs look like at dessert. The one's Mum and I make at home are slightly darker, and more ... syrupy for the sauce.
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I did a Halloween manicure ... I used one of my special design stems and drew a spider web with "Black Out" from OPI, then covered it with Estee Lauder's 'Champagne Frost'. It's my favorite color, and I'll be sad soon because it's almost gone, and more than what I want to pay for a polish. It's like a golden beige and wears really, really well. It gives the spiderweb (that I painted on top of a clear base coat) a shimmery effect.
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Different reasons for me. As a story moderator for Lush, I'm not always here just to read or chat: I work here. I'll often go invisible just to get some stories done, and to catch up with mods behind the scenes. As far as stalkers go, well, that's what the "Block" feature is for!
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"oh God"
"yes"
"fuck"
"fuck yea"
Those are pretty much it that I know of. Otherwise, it's whimpers, moans and such. Yannow, the good stuff. 'Course, I also had one ex say "I know you're really into it when you don't say anything at all, or make any noises: you're just kinda shuddering and staring at the ceiling."
Was nice to know he ACTUALLY paid attention to me during sex. Novel!
"yes"
"fuck"
"fuck yea"
Those are pretty much it that I know of. Otherwise, it's whimpers, moans and such. Yannow, the good stuff. 'Course, I also had one ex say "I know you're really into it when you don't say anything at all, or make any noises: you're just kinda shuddering and staring at the ceiling."
Was nice to know he ACTUALLY paid attention to me during sex. Novel!
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Lots of other ladies said it already, but hey, what's one more?
Don't rush. It will happen. The big thing is to be yourself. The right lady won't care, she'll probably be honored. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 19, and years later, at 25, I got the V-card, unknowingly, of my then-boyfriend who was your age. It's like guys freaking out about "performance anxiety"... the best way to ensure it's gonna happen is to worry about it. The time will come, and it'll be great.
Don't rush. It will happen. The big thing is to be yourself. The right lady won't care, she'll probably be honored. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 19, and years later, at 25, I got the V-card, unknowingly, of my then-boyfriend who was your age. It's like guys freaking out about "performance anxiety"... the best way to ensure it's gonna happen is to worry about it. The time will come, and it'll be great.
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I've been in a writing slump for what seems like ages. I even sat down the other day and made myself "show" what was outside my very own door, and it read like a damn manual. I wrote crap. It was absolute shit. And that made me sad. My "boss" (he hates when I call him that) at the website I write articles for commented on the fact that I've not had many things posted lately, and asked if he could help.
So, I had a fit, threw a thumb drive with some of my erotica on it, and told him to read it and tell me what he thought.... He was gone for a looong time. (We all know what happened, but I didn't dare admit it to him!) And then I had a close friend read some of my other stories.
Because of their encouragement, I'm now about a third finished with my first story in months. I regularly have to stop, and just enjoy life before I sit down with my laptop again.
Probably doesn't help that I've quit smoking, and I always had a cigarette between my lips when I was writing. And, no, it wasn't always lit; it was just there.
So, I had a fit, threw a thumb drive with some of my erotica on it, and told him to read it and tell me what he thought.... He was gone for a looong time. (We all know what happened, but I didn't dare admit it to him!) And then I had a close friend read some of my other stories.
Because of their encouragement, I'm now about a third finished with my first story in months. I regularly have to stop, and just enjoy life before I sit down with my laptop again.
Probably doesn't help that I've quit smoking, and I always had a cigarette between my lips when I was writing. And, no, it wasn't always lit; it was just there.
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It's called 'flan', is delicious, and looks like this:
Steph pretty much hit the nail on the head. My story, 'All in Time' features two wonderful characters that some of my readers really enjoy. Without detail for spoilers, I'm nearly on the verge of tears at what I know I have in store for them as the story progresses. But I think that any good writer feels that way about some of their favorite characters, because they're well-written because they ARE extensions of ourselves.
Being a writer has so much power. We create, and we destroy. It's that simple and complex. Then pen is truly mightier than the sword.
Steph pretty much hit the nail on the head. My story, 'All in Time' features two wonderful characters that some of my readers really enjoy. Without detail for spoilers, I'm nearly on the verge of tears at what I know I have in store for them as the story progresses. But I think that any good writer feels that way about some of their favorite characters, because they're well-written because they ARE extensions of ourselves.
Being a writer has so much power. We create, and we destroy. It's that simple and complex. Then pen is truly mightier than the sword.
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As another in the list of story mods, I'll beep right in with the other mods as far as verification goes.
To repeat something that cannot be stressed enough: We're all volunteers behind the scenes. We have jobs, families, and other responsibilities. It's why there's a small army of us, literally spread across the globe. We're on at differing times, differing days. I'm a single mother who also helps care for ailing parents, and a teenaged sister. I know we've got other parents, nurses, donkeys (Hi, Wil!) and lushes.
I remember a time just within the past few weeks where, even with mods hitting the queue like crazy all day long, we couldn't get the submissions queue any LOWER than 49. And that's with mods working literally around the clock on stories.
It's not that we don't care: We're authors ourselves. We've been on that side. But sometimes you guys throw everything at us all at once.
A tip, because I read one poster talking about submitting multiple chapters to one story at once. Please DON'T do that. It bogs up the queue. Even if they were all perfect and verified, it's one story posted in a day. So, say I approved 5 chapters of your story, the last one won't be out for five more days. Rules, folks. We prefer you to submit one chapter at a time. Please do that. Save a mod's life.
To repeat something that cannot be stressed enough: We're all volunteers behind the scenes. We have jobs, families, and other responsibilities. It's why there's a small army of us, literally spread across the globe. We're on at differing times, differing days. I'm a single mother who also helps care for ailing parents, and a teenaged sister. I know we've got other parents, nurses, donkeys (Hi, Wil!) and lushes.
I remember a time just within the past few weeks where, even with mods hitting the queue like crazy all day long, we couldn't get the submissions queue any LOWER than 49. And that's with mods working literally around the clock on stories.
It's not that we don't care: We're authors ourselves. We've been on that side. But sometimes you guys throw everything at us all at once.
A tip, because I read one poster talking about submitting multiple chapters to one story at once. Please DON'T do that. It bogs up the queue. Even if they were all perfect and verified, it's one story posted in a day. So, say I approved 5 chapters of your story, the last one won't be out for five more days. Rules, folks. We prefer you to submit one chapter at a time. Please do that. Save a mod's life.