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JoJoLovesBBC
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Wouldn't you all like to know, lol, well you'd have to ask my darling hubby how many guys it's been as he keeps a journal with my exact figures in it, at least since I went black a little over seven years ago that is. Safe to say its a very VERY high number today. As for all the white guys I did prior to meeting my hubby though, who knows now, but given my earliest sexual experiences started in my pre-teens and I was a very gifted and popular slut ALL the way through my teen years, it's easily (and I'm being conservative in saying this now) several football teams worth of white guys back then, lol. Which is undoubtedly far fewer guys when compared with the present time, given the amount of beautiful black men I've been so blessed to be with in countless wonderful ways smile
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Is this a trick question or what, lol, of course I would do it, I love how delicious my pussy tastes. To be able to contort myself enough to the point where I could lick my own pussy and suck on my clit, damn that would take masturbation to a whole other level. Plus since I'm very bisexual anyways it would be so much fun to also enjoy dining on myself whenever the mood strikes me smile
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Well I'd have to say it's a combination of both at times, as the lines can sometimes blur between pleasure and pain. We've all heard the expression hurts so good right, as pain doesn't necessarily have to be a bad thing, actually it can be quite intoxicating with the right man at the right time. Either way though, I'm a size queen, I've earned that title over my years of being a hotwife and BBC slut which taught me precisely how much better fucking guys with bigger cocks feel over taking on average or little ones. I've been told by a lot of very endowed guys that I was born to take big cocks, something I can't argue with, lol.

Size matters and ideally the guy equipped with a superior sized cock also has the skill set to use it properly too, which is the ultimate combination that's impossible to beat. So if we're warmed up and ready or at least have a handy bottle of lube then I say bring it on, give me everything you got and don't hold back a single inch! If it hurts at times a little or even a lot, I'm a big girl now, you're not going to break me, I can take it. Once those waves of Bliss wash over me again and again and again it's all good smile
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Oh YES, and not just once either, oh no far from it. I tend to really get lost into the zone when I'm masturbating, whether I'm reading erotica or watching some sexy porn video or simply playing with myself with my eyes closed letting my imagination burst with any of a variety of fantasies. Since I have always had a very high sex drive since I was very young, I've frequently played with my fun bits anywhere from once a day up to maybe three or four times in a day if I am really worked up and not seeing anyone for sex that day. Like anything, the more you do it, the more times someone somewhere somehow is going to see you getting busy.

So I've been caught a number of times over the years, mostly when I was in my teens when I was at home or when I was traveling for work when I used to model. At home, my mom was the first one to ever catch me when I think I was like 10 or 11, and she was as upset at catching me as I was at being caught by her. She was overall cool with it, just so unexpected though and it was painfully embarrassing to both of us. She caught me a couple more times later in my teens too (why do people just walk in to rooms when the door is closed... knock first and wait for a response, lol), but that went much better than the first time.

My dad has caught me twice, once when I was in our hot tub and he came up behind me not realizing I was REALLY enjoying the jets until he got close enough to see me pressed up against it, lol, and then again a few years later when he came home early one time and caught me watching porn riding a cucumber. I was grounded for two weeks for that one, he was really upset that time.

Then years later after I was married but staying over at my parents for my birthday celebration, sleeping in my old room alone cause my hubby was away on a business trip, my little sister walked in on me when I was in that zone, my eyes shut tightly on the verge of orgasm, when I heard something and opened my eyes to see her walking into my room just staring at me in silence. Thankfully she's so cool she just blurted out laughing as did I, we're tight that way, as we always talked about sex and things so in the end it wasn't a big deal for either of us.

When you travel for some modeling assignments you'll sometimes get paired up with another model to share a hotel suite with, it can be fun if you two get along, but sucks other times. Well hotels are much less private than a home as there are less places to hide when you just really need to feel that orgasmic rush at virtually any cost, you know what I'm talking about. Three different girls have caught me pleasing myself, one time I was in the shower with my big dildo stuck to the tile wall drilling myself on it, lol, which was awesome actually cause I learned then she was into me when she dropped her robe and joined me for some deliciously hot times together over the following years starting that evening. Another time I was trying to masturbate quietly in the middle of the night in bed in the dark, to not wake up the girl I was rooming with that trip, but again I lose myself and sure enough, gave myself away and she caught me. It was alright though, she just teased me about it a bunch of times afterwards when she'd see me.

But the last time was the most awkward and uncomfortable though, it was the photographer for the shoot who busted me at play, in the staging area (yeah I know, I was stupid to think I could get away with it there but my lust made me do it, lol). I was alone waiting for the crew to adjust lighting and and fan for the set, no one could see me really from the waist down, so I gave into temptation and let my fingers slide up under my little dress and dip inside myself, for some G-spot fun. I was sooo worked up that day cause of this one super hot male model (who was sadly gay though, but what a beautiful man he was), that I quickly jilled off while waiting. Twice. But as I pulled my sticky wet fingers out of me, I turned around to clean them up and found myself staring right in the face of our photographer less than 8 feet from me, who apparently watched the entire session and my two orgasms. Getting caught by this point in time in my life was not the shock to the system it once was, I didn't mind it so much because masturbation is perfectly natural for anyone to do, it's a basic biological function our body needs and we all do it. But in this situation he made it extra weird after by constantly hitting on me and making tons of lewd comments towards me and tried a bunch of times to practically coerce me into his bed. He was a total troll too, not anyone I would have ever wanted to fuck, no matter how horny I was. Eventually he gave up on trying to have me, but, it was challenging to work with him before that happened. It may have cured me though, because that was the last time anyone ever caught me playing with myself, well... at least as far as I know, lol.
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Such a straight forward question, simple and honest, I get it. But shouldn't we girls maybe be asking your cock size in return too? After all we all know that size does actually matter if we are being completely honest here, at least in one of these two cases, lol. Anyways hon, I'll join the discussion too, I'm a 34D cup, natural, but sometimes they get a bit larger and fuller at that time of the month though. I have fairly large (I guess, lol) areolas and I know I have thicker than average nipples too, which are also pierced btw. I find it makes them more sensitive to touch, in a really good way. I love my breasts, but still there are times when I wish I was bigger even and I've considered augmenting them at some point in my life smile
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Absolutely! There is no question about it, to feel a sexy man bare and hard deep inside you, hot skin against skin, OMG, it's sooo delicious!! There is no better sensation, its natural and how our bodies are wired to react and respond to intimate physical contact like this. Using a condom is so artificial and kind of sterile. Plus it's an interruption to the heat of the moment and can delay or even stop your spontaneity if you're relying on having a condom in place first before indulging your senses in your lover. Take responsibility for yourself and get on birth control, and also have yourself and any new lovers tested first, before you place yourself in the position to have sex together later on. This way you can skip the whole gross condom issue and get on with enjoying each others body like Nature intended for us to do, with peace of mind. I'm a bareback only girl, I sincerely want to feel you cum deep inside me, it's so sexy that way!
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Hell YES, lol! Doesn't every girl own at least several fun toys in different shapes and sizes for whatever mood we may be in at the time?! Between regular dildos, vibrating dildos, and strap-on dildos, I own around 10 toys in total. I'm a Size Queen, so I have a good size variety too, from smaller ones around 8 inches, up to huge ones pushing 14 plus inches, for those times when you really want to be challenged, or perhaps to challenge someone else to take it, lol smile
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It all depends on who is finger fucking me, as in is my lover a guy or another girl, so the size of their hand and fingers make a big difference. Plus how turned on I am at the time, is it early foreplay or in the midst of a hot and sweaty round of sex later on. It matters right. Oh and it almost goes without saying I can take more if I'm a bit drunk first perhaps, like most girls can, drinking relaxes our muscles. On average with a regular guy during a typical hook-up, I tend to really like 3 to 4 fingers going deep in my pussy, and 2 in my butt is nice. However I've actually been fisted by other girls though, a bunch of times over the years, and to be honest I absolutely freaking LOVED it! So intense and powerful, it's mind blowing when done well smile
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This is a topic that strikes a chord with me. Less so the legal issue of women being permitted to go topless here, but more so because of the entire focus on our breasts. I have been blessed with fairly large breasts and as a result have had to deal with this integral part of my anatomy in regards to how others view and treat me for having them. I live on the West coast of Canada in the beautiful Pacific Rim gateway city of Vancouver. In Canada, much like in the United States, there is a notable difference in personalities and pace of life for those living in the East versus those of us here in West. Think of how different New Yorkers are compared to those from California. Those here on the West coast tend to be considerably laid back, easy going, more relaxed, less rushed, and are inclined to enjoy a more open way of life. Yet even today with our liberal point of view here in the West, fifteen years in to the 21st century, some things are not that different nor have changed much in generations and are still as uptight as ever. Society's overall perspective on women's breasts.

In 2015 we are still expected to hide this part of our body at all times, and not just conceal our breasts but also hide their primary purpose, to feed and nourish babies. This point was once again hilighted recently by Presidential candidate Donald Trump during his campaign who made offensive and derogatory statements about such a natural act. He, and many will agree with him, are offended and even repulsed by any suggestion of us utilizing our breasts for such purposes and feel it is an act we should also hide, along with what our individual breasts look like of course. Not only must we conceal them, that is not considered enough, as many also became considerably offended by the mere notion of our fully covered nipples protruding through the fabric of our clothing at any point in time. I've personally seen many people actually sneer or look shocked upon noticing the presence of my erect nipples showing through one of my tops. It's as if I assaulted these people who react with varying degrees of disgust to my nipples shape protruding shape.

Why is this part of the female anatomy, something every woman is born with, so offensive and controversial to our modern day culture still? I thought we lived in a democratic free society where all are created equal and should be treated with respect. Yet this could not be further from the truth at times. I've even experimented with this concept, where I have gone to the same places twice, dressed differently each time. One time, I would wear more revealing clothing, hilighting my breasts, usually displaying ample cleavage and through going braless which allowed the shape of my nipples to be aptly visible sometimes. The other time, I would wear more conservative fashions where my breasts and nipples are downplayed and fully hidden from public viewing.

The extremes in how others treated me varied dramatically, be it men or other women whom I came in to contact with. I was treated more equally and with greater kindness from other women while my breasts were hidden away, and the men paid less attention to me and more of them seem to treat me with a general indifference although many still were sweet to me. But when I was wearing revealing clothes that hilighted my figure and placed my breasts and by extension my nipples on exhibition through more daring clothes, the reactions I received from each sex changed and was amplified significantly. Those same men I had encountered before now reacted with enthusiastic reception upon coming into contact with me, became much more focused on me (more specifically on my chest), and many reacted with a subtly giddy and at times slightly creepy or even stalker-like behavior. This was no surprise to me, as I already know most men are highly visually oriented and react strongly to the sight of the female form when visible and in their field of vision. That is merely biology at work and it doesn't offend me actually, in fact I often find that to be quite flattering and at times endearing.

But it was largely the reactions of other women that I found to be the most extreme and sadly disheartening. I certainly didn't need to conduct this little experiment as I have had much experience over the years with varying levels of reception to my body from other women, both favorable and unfavorable. The point of this mostly was for me to see the extreme more clearly, by first showing my breasts hidden and then running into these same people while my breasts were revealed. I am the same person either way, regardless of how I dress or what part of my anatomy is visible or not. Yet with other women, is where the condemnation really erupted. I was not greeted with the same kindness nor afforded the same courtesy or help as I had been before, and I could easily feel the divide carved out between us where previously existed an open equality. Mix in everything from dirty looks, dismissive answers, rude conduct, cold interactions and even uncivil or derogatory comments said about me under their breath when they thought I wasn't listening. Truly it was disgusting, if anything it could be perceived as a form of bullying and so closed minded and simply unkind.

Women should be better then this to each other, we need to be less judgmental and more supportive, inclusive with one another. Especially when it concerns our body, our natural anatomy, the way we were born and developed as we matured while growing up into adulthood. Why must our breasts, be they large or average or small, along with our nipples, by they erect or soft, be such a focal point for bad behavior and constant negative focus. Which brings me to this topic of us having not had the same basic right as men to reveal the top half of our body under the right circumstances. Like say for example at the beach when it is hot out, or in a park, by a pool, even in your own backyard regardless whether the neighbors or passerby's on the street may be able to see you or not, to name a few places. Men can and frequently do do it, they have pectoral breast tissue and nipples as well, as our two anatomies are not that different realistically from the outside on our top half. For years it was considered to be illegal across Canada to display in public this part of our body however, even though in many other parts of the world it is allowed in general or at least allowed in restricted places like at nude or topless beaches.

Thankfully this has changed here and we no longer face legal consequences for not covering our breasts from others' view. But the social stigma and conservative influence that rules the masses has not changed yet, it's still primitive and discourages us by attempting to demoralize us from participating in the same act that men are free to partake in. Most sad is it is women who seem to be at the center of this resistance as they treat other women with such disdain and offensive behavior to shame us into being embarrassed or made to feel inhibited about our own body. A body that we were born with, that is a creation of nature and is built as it was meant to be. That is ridiculous, small minded, regressive, harmful to our confidence and creates a host of other problems that do not need to exist. Breasts are a part of us, they serve a primary purpose in the reproduction of our society and a secondary purpose for physical pleasure, also something that we are all entitled to have. I refuse to allow my sisters betray me like this simply because they can not come to terms with their own body and allow themselves to be offended by another woman's shape. I will never give in, never allow others to dictate to me how my body should be treated and what is considered acceptable within society today or not. My breasts are a part of me, I love them like I love my face, or my legs, or my stomach, or any other part of my anatomy. I can not help it if others become upset by the presence of my body parts, that is their problem to reconcile with, and I hope they can make peace with it sooner than later, because this is a fight for our rights to be who we are. One I will never surrender nor let go of until that stigma becomes a thing of the past. Ladies, you can help this cause and yourself by not giving in to being shamed, by not letting others tell you how to dress, by resisting the pressure you feel to downplay any part of your body.

Breasts are beautiful, as are our nipples, and we should be proud of them no matter what at all times, big or small, natural or even augmented as it doesn't matter. Stand tall and hold your head high and be free to live your life without the judgment of others curbing your right to be the strong, powerful, unique individual you were born as. It is a choice, one we each can make for ourselves. What you do next is up to you, so choose wisely, love your breasts and show them the same consideration and kindness you would ideally show to others as well! Cheers, JoJo smile
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I've never been a quitter in life and I always give 110% to everything I do, and those rules I govern myself by extend to sex and how I interact with any lovers I have. So I always swallow when given the opportunity to do that for my lovers! In all honesty, I can not imagine being the type of girl who won't let a guy cum in her mouth or will take it, but then turns around and immediately spits it back out afterwards. Yes I personally really enjoy the varying tastes and texture of their cum, but so what, even if I did not I would still swallow for them out of common respect and mutual admiration. I aim to give my lover the best sexual experience I can, which means not only not holding back, but it means total commitment to all you are involved in.

Come on now girls, we both know that is just rude to spit and even could be considered highly disrespectful as well. Think about it, picture if the roles were reversed girls, what if the guy going down on you suddenly or hurriedly gets up after you having your orgasm on his mouth and races off to the bathroom to spit our essence out into the sink and rinse his mouth out after. You couldn't possibly be okay with that, you can not tell me that his behavior doing this to you would not embarrass you, hurt you, reduce the quality of the orgasm and post bliss you had initially, make you hesitant to have him go down on you again in the future, or make you simply furious with him later on, if not immediately? Yet, some of us will do this to guys, and then we expect them to just be fine with it and never complain about out actions.

Well I am sorry girls, I do not believe in double standards where it is fine for one to do something that is not reciprocated by the other individual at some point. That is just being selfish and arrogant. Elite-minded thinking such as this is what gets some girls labeled as being bitches and rightfully so. Guys deserve better, so it is time we stand up and stop whining and be a little more respectful of the guys we are with, by showing them better treatment. There is a very simply very old rule to guide you in your decisions, which I'll paraphrase as - do unto others as you'd have them do to you. Cheers, JoJo smile
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