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Jayemelle
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 36
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I've been with my husband for 7 years, (I'm only 25) and to be honest, the sexual attraction is definitely gone. Would i tell him that? NEVER.
Sometimes I think he must feel the same, He will barely look up if i walk around with no clothes on and doesn't get immediately aroused. Or maybe its just familiarity? I don't really know. I am actually really interested in other answers here.
We have good sex when we do have it because we have been together so long we know how to push each others buttons, but I don't look at him and think, wow, I really want to tear your clothes off and take you right now. I don't fantasize about him in that way.
I miss the passion that was there at the start of the relationship, he doesn't fight me, or call me out on my crap, he is softly spoken and kind.
In saying that, he is a wonderful partner and my best friend in the world and i love him very, very much. He is caring and considerate and gives me everything I ever need otherwise.
I don't think I would give up the friendship, support, and love up for someone who I shared an intense sexual connection with. Although I do think its a little sad I am not made to feel that attractive when i am only young and after years of being an overweight teenager, starting to get to a place where I know my body is desirable.
Sometimes I think he must feel the same, He will barely look up if i walk around with no clothes on and doesn't get immediately aroused. Or maybe its just familiarity? I don't really know. I am actually really interested in other answers here.
We have good sex when we do have it because we have been together so long we know how to push each others buttons, but I don't look at him and think, wow, I really want to tear your clothes off and take you right now. I don't fantasize about him in that way.
I miss the passion that was there at the start of the relationship, he doesn't fight me, or call me out on my crap, he is softly spoken and kind.
In saying that, he is a wonderful partner and my best friend in the world and i love him very, very much. He is caring and considerate and gives me everything I ever need otherwise.
I don't think I would give up the friendship, support, and love up for someone who I shared an intense sexual connection with. Although I do think its a little sad I am not made to feel that attractive when i am only young and after years of being an overweight teenager, starting to get to a place where I know my body is desirable.
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Quote by iWoMan
sucked yes. milked? I am not a cow.
This cracked me up haha..
Having them played with, licked etc, is a massive turn on to me, but i've found its something past lovers have not given enough attention to. Preferring to concentrate on the more obvious area haha
haha