I went to college in the Southwest (and this is now decades ago -- so not so surprising now), in the desert, on a sprawling campus of more than 10,000 students. I was a semi-poor kid, cobbling together tuition with grants and loans, and still had to work my way through – as a tutor. On occasion, during breaks, I could fly home, though. One winter break I did, and on the flight back I saw the most incredible girl. She had...

Her name was Miki, and she was on vacation from Japan. She was staying in a hotel on L.A.'s west side. How the virtual world is an enabling place. That of course, was where I found her, online. It was a simple thing: I posted an anonymous ad in the personals section of a website. "I just want to lick." I then wrote a brief discussion of how enamored I was with cunnilingus (which was completely true), and how the willing w...