Online, I like a guy that can have a very normal conversation, while using proper grammar preferably. If you do not know how to spell "you" properly, then I have doubts about your intelligence. Do not come at me, thinking I am automatically going to have cyber sex with you. That is not what I joined this site for and your arrogance will only piss me off.
Offline, the first thing that will grab my attention is a killer smile. If you can knock me dead with your smile, things can go far. You have to be able to hold a good conversation, and change from topic to topic easily, but not just to talk, I like for a guy to actually remember the things I tell him. I love a guy that will randomly be sweet and buy me flowers, or will randomly tell me how much he cares. Be chivalrous, open my door, take my hand and help me into a car, stand when I come to a table, simple gestures like this will make me fall head over heels. Just as online, I do not like a guy that will simply try to get in my pants. Those guys do not succeed, I like a guy that will be happy even if I am not willing to give him that part of me. Also, as bad as it may sound, there has to be a physical attraction, and although I am independent, I like to be able to feel like a man would be able to take care of me.
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