Well I think it happens more often than we think that women are attracted to older guys. My parents separated when my dad was 39. My dad met the daughter of a business associate on a business trip to Reykjavik. Apparently in Iceland and Scandinavia they are not so uptight about "age" as we are in North America. Anyways he started dating Eydis when she was 19 and he was 40. She's now what all my friends call "your hot stepmom" haha and ten years later they are still very happy. My dad looks years younger because of her I'm sure. I think a young wife keeps a man more active. People should just try to be happy.