I'm new here. Where on Lush is the best place to interact? Is that possible? Just some chat and toe-dipping.

I've been married for almost 50 years. I love my wife but she has been menopausal for almost 20 years now and has lost all interest in sex. I'm just looking for some release and relaxation that involves something other than my hands. Yes, I'm ambidextrous lol. I'm not sure how that works but I'm interested in finding out. Suggestions?