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Greybeard
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 154
0 miles · Colorado

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Quote by submissivemom72
I have never experienced it, but I do realize that eventually many men get to the point that they cannot perform as they once did. If that happened to my husband, I am pretty confident that he would still want me to enjoy the physical pleasures of sex

As a man who's reached that point (it's not bad yet, we still have lots of fun, I just realize that I don't get or stay hard as easily as I did even a few years ago)... I can't help but point out that I think you're skipping at least one big step in your thinking. I don't mean to be presumptuous, and I'm reading a lot into not a lot of text, so forgive me if you think I'm speaking the obvious.

Sex isn't just about "sticking it in", and if you haven't already found lots of other ways to pleasure each other sexually .. what are you waiting for!?!


with other men, hopefully while watching and perhaps even holding me while they fucked me. I think he would want to cuddle with me after I had sex with other men, even if he could no longer penetrate me himself.


I don't know your husband, obviously, but please don't assume without explicit discussion that your husband is going to find it easy to let you carry on with other men, no matter how much he loves you and wants you to be satisfied and sexually fulfilled. For what it's worth, the "Awakenings" series currently being posted has some of the most thoughtful writing about this topic that I've ever read.

Hopefully this situation is many decades away.

Amen. But, please, don't wait until hubby has ED issues to experiment with and experience lots of ways of pleasuring each other. I haven't got a submissive bone in my body, but I still absolutely love going down on my wife... and I'm pretty sure her strongest orgasms ever involved my mouth and fingers working together...