I'm shy, and can be quiet, but I do know what I like. I am very open to suggestions...very...and will let you know when and if I am not comfortable with something. I like to explore different aspects of myself with people who are honestly interested in the exploration and not just in it to make themselves feel like they have power {shrugs} I aim to please but you can be sure I talk back

random disclaimer...I am not a fan of sharing pictures if we just chat once or even a few times...I do not and please please please don't think you can talk me into it if I have already told you I would rather not...i am not comfortable with it...respect the boundaries...that's all I can ask...among other things...

Interests
I like books and baking...coffee, tea, desserts, mini adventures to anywhere....getting my hands dirty and breaking a sweat as something is created...laughing and really good/interesting/thought provoking conversations.

Favorite Books
Asking for my favorite book is akin to asking a parent who their favorite child is...we all know they have one, but you just don't want to say it out loud...and I although the amount of books that I have read and that I own is more than I care to admit at times, the ones that I re-read are only a handful and I refuse to choose from among them

Favorite Authors
Stephen King, Tami Hoag, Gregory Maguire, Patricia Briggs, Janet Evanovich, Jeanine Frost, Laurel K Hamilton, Charlain Harris and whatever other random author happens to catch my interest as I'm browsing the book racks

Favorite Movies
Spy game, 10 things I hate about you, practical magic, labyrinth, hope floats, the expendables, die hard (first 3) lethal weapon, the patriot, 7 brides for 7 brothers, next stop wonderland, my cousin vinny, the replacements, adventures in babysitting, gone in 60 seconds, face off, love actually, about a boy, roman holiday, on the town, love and sex, dear Frankie, under the same moon, the court jester....I can't remember the names of the other ones I like

Favorite TV Shows
Lie to me, elementary, dr. Who, Sherlock, chopped, the walking dead, sons of anarchy, house, bones, shameless, masterpiece mystery, say yes to the dress, code black, the librarians, turn, haven, castle, ink master, so you think you can dance, the great British baking show....

Favorite Music
I have a rather eclectic taste...as long as it has a good beat and smooth rhythm I will enjoy it...I tend to stay away from the extremes of any genre.