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GingerSun
Over 90 days ago
Female, 154

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My husband asked me the other day if I ever had any sexual fantasies. I told him about a dream I used to have about sliding back in a bar stool and letting a guy have his way. He told me if I ever felt in the moment to let another guy feel me up, to have fun with it. In his words, hands are harmless. This took me by some surprise as I have always felt men would consider this cheating. But I asked whether he would really not mind, and he said not at all.

I had never considered doing this before. But ever since, I have been thinking about living out letting another guy give me a feel up in a dark spot in a club/bar. And I’m quite excited to give it a try.

As a first timer for something like this, any tips? In particular...

How to get a stranger engaged in some fun, but not leading him on to try to take anything too far?

How to control my facial expression so it is not too obvious that I am getting worked up?

Should I go out without panties to make it a bit easier, or is that too suggestive?

Should I take my hubby along, or perhaps a girl friend instead?

Any signals to watch for on a guy as red flags to stay away?