Good question! Speaking for myself, it seemed like the "hot girls" were always in relationships. To this day, when I see a :hot girl," I figure she has a boyfriend or a husband; at any rate she is not interested in a guy like me. Many, many guys are intimidated by super-hot women. The pretty-but-not-hot girls were fun to talk to, and often very smart. Though I don't have a lot of experience here, the pretty-but-not-hot girls could be excellent lovers.