I've always opted more towards speaking my mind in a constructive and in round about ways of offending as opposed to doing it directly. The audience will be less willing to accept what is being told to them, but there are moments when you just have to say "Fuck it" and really lay it on someone. There is a time and place for everything, you have to be clairvoyant enough to decipher when that time and where that place is.
The thing is you have to stop taking everyone's advice and evaluate yourself. Are you quitting for reasons other than you sincerely wanting to? If so, then it has to come to the point where you value your health more than anything else. You can listen to what everyone else has to say, but you have to really want it and be ready to do so in order for it to work. Otherwise, it will just be a vicious cycle. Do it right the first time!
This is a common occurrence for me.
I find the idea enticing in the sense that a woman would be the dominant in the beginning, telling them with no holds barred how to please you in every way in a tutorial like manner, then allowing them to submerge into their instincts and take over. But realistically speaking, I took a guy's virginity in highschool and he would just cling onto my every move and word like a puppy dog, it got pretty disturbing after some time. I can't help but shake my head and giggle to myself whenever I see him around.
I'm all for it, but it has to be the perfect middle ground.. Not completely bare and not a fucking genital Amazonian forest either. I find I'm more willing to do oral when his nether regions are groomed nicely ;)
Not particularly, I don't think it would do anything for me. It seems harmless though, if that's something he wanted to do, I would be willing to try.
I think it's hot to give in to those carnal desires.
My partner and I are really kinky with each other like that.
Always such a turn on to see a guy in such a primal state!
I personally don't think a skirt is the proper attire for biking..
Usually everyone here in Cali will wear shorts, capris, or jeans.
So long as I could dodge my way out of doing so and give him a P.O. Box #, I'd be all for it. If he is adamant about getting my actual home address, I would have to decline. No gift in the world is worth risking my privacy and security.
I think asking for advice is one thing but don't make your final decision based off a few people's thoughts online. You need to consult your physician and gain their insight on the matter. You don't have to be stuck with wearing condoms all the time, the world of medicine has come a long way.. getting a proper medical opinion is the only solution. Express your concerns and discuss what type of medication she takes, how and what you can do to prevent yourself from contracting this STD.
If you guys are capable to carry out the relationship without having feelings for each other, why would it be a bad thing?
If you are only having this problem with one user, then there is a possibility that they have blocked you. If this is a problem with multiple users, I would go to the Chat Forum and find the Lush Helpdesk, they should be able to help you!
I wouldn't say anything that would expose my Lush account to those who don't need to know. My philosophy is what goes around, comes around and if this person is super adamant about hooking up with someone over the internet, then he must be doing it elsewhere offline.
Now, if this is a REALLY good friend of yours then I would say something. Otherwise, I wouldn't poke my nose where it doesn't belong.
As an active traveler, I find myself struggling with insomnia during time zone changes. Here are some helpful tips:
Eat dinner no later than 20:00, as this gives your body time to unwind and properly digest. Cut out caffeine and dairy before bed time as well, it upsets the stomach.
Taking a hot shower usually relaxes your muscles before bed. Make sure not to sleep with wet hair as this can make you ill and make you more prone to ear infections! Usually I opt for a bath with essential oils such as lavender, it has properties known for promoting relaxation and it's really gentle on the skin.
Even something so simple as turning off all the lights, electronics, loud air conditioners/heaters can make you doze off as well. I've also found that light distracts me from sleeping so if you have windows/shutters that have light seeping in, look into some energy saving curtains as they are most efficient for blocking out the light.
I don't like to take pills.. I primarily like to search for holistic solutions but if all else fails, I will take a melatonin pill. Melatonin also comes in liquid form, which is easy to drop in with some caffeine free tea and seems to work faster than the pill. Good luck.
He doesn't understand because communication is key, you have to specify to him what kind of insecurity you're feeling. Bodily, emotionally, whatever the case might be.. you have to sit down with him and help him understand and come to some sort of solution, or find a way to shed away your insecurities. It takes time, patience, love and understanding.. all of these things I hope he is able to give you. Good luck Xx
There is never no right or wrong answer, because each relationship is very different. I was engaged to a man who is 7 years older than me, from my failed personal experience here is what I can say to you with the hopes that your experience is not the same... If you guys share a lot of common thoughts and interests, it helps a lot. I think that's pretty much a universal foundation for any prosperous relationship. Another thing is, some things that may be very important to you (e.g.: going out, blogging, music, how often to stay in touch, experiences, etc.) may not be as important to him. Maturity comes into play as well, someone can be 30, but they may act 13. There are multiple things that you need to pay attention to when coming to your final decision.
Highly against it. I feel that if someone wanted you to know that information about them, then they would tell you if they valued you or your opinion enough. But say, you're going on a first date with someone- I think doing a Google search is harmless. But when it comes to following, calling, blackmailing, inviting yourself, no consideration for personal space then I flip out.
I've had 3 stalker experiences. One fan followed me on the freeway from my house to LAX for no relevant reason other than to just look at me I guess. Creepy shit, people are seriously demented these days!
Cunt. It's very disturbing.
