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Ezbaby22
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 154
United States

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Quote by JohnC
Honestly, I don't think this is in the right section. To me it is not a bdsm issue. Not every time someone is "dominant" and someone is "submissive" does it by default become a bdsm situation. There is a LOT more to it than that. In fact, almost EVERY relationship has an element of one being more dominant than the other at one point or another, in one situation or another. But that does not mean everyone is engaging in bdsm lifestyles or activities.

From what I read in your post, you didn't say anything that I have not seen written about crossdressing relationships and activities.... and it was not bdsm, IMO. It was simply a gay/bi male not wanting to lose what he thinks is is masculinity by being with anther man. That is not bdsm, even if he is "dominant".


Yeah i know that...i didnt mean to post it in there. Thats why its not even a complete post but i can't delete it and i couldn't cancel it quick enough. And my apologies if im just reading your post out of context, but it kind of seems like you were getting offensive that i posted the wrong thing in the wrong area. It was an accident.
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Im not quite sure if im reaching out for advice or i might just be venting due to confusion. Not too long ago, when it came to the subject of wearing female's clothing or being feminine, it wasnt something i got into. I never degraded cross dressing in any way or judged that lifestyle...but it was simply just not for me. But as of a little over a month ago, i became sexually involved with a guy that is a masculine top and is used to a straight-only orientation. Before we had hooked up for the first time, he requested something that caught me off guard. He asked me to wear sexy women's underwear, tight women's jeans, a girly shirt, he asked to get glue on fingernails and lastly, be as feminine and submissive as possible. I wasnt expecting that, but quickly understood the reasoning. He's never been with a guy and he wanted to feel as less gay as possible. He was respectful about it, cool and very sexy so i agreed to do the two things that opposed me at the time. Be feminine and submissive. 2 days after our meeting, i was getting ready to go over to his house so i followed through and uncomfortably transformed to the new feminine, submissive cock pleaser, Arianna. I even gave myself a female name for this guy. Anyways, i get there and he opens the door and just stares. I had tight pants on that showed off my legs, thighs and ass, pink lace boycutt shorts and had black tip nails. I was feminine as hell. He took complete control which was also new to me, but i just went with it and did what i was politely demanded to do.

He laid me on the bed and started taking my clothes off. When he took my pants off and slipped down my lace underwear, he gave off a giggle and sighed in relief. When i asked whats wrong he said he was nervous that my dick would be bigger than his but was relieved to see that i have a "clit" for a dick....when he said that its like the rest of my manhood got flushed. So thats good news for him cuz at that moment i felt like a female. He started making moves and dominating me. Usually during sex i moan quietly, but he had me screaming in a high pitch tone he's amazing at what he does. Shortly after he finished, he said that i did perfect playing the role of a woman and didnt get uncomfortable at
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When im in the mood to watch porn, I'd prefer to watch real amateur homemade porn...but sometimes ill watch scripted porn. This is random, but, I believe that anyone that is willing to break what was once known as a "sacred intimate tradition" and also brave enough to video record exploiting your private body parts and those belonging to any other homemade pornstar participants that are exposing theirselves to potentially TENS of THOUSANDS of people watching you and your partner(s) have sex. However, if you still choose to commit to it after factoring in all those important, person details should be declared to have the title of being pornstar...but my favorite celebrity pornstars are Jenna Jameson and Tori Black.
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Boobs are great of course, EVERYONE loves them...but the size in my opinion doesn't matter whatsoever. As long as i get to suck on them lol, anyways...my most recent long relationship that i was in, she has two different size breasts from being bitten as a child. One is a size A and the other is close to a D i believe...but it never bothered me ever. Though boobs serve as a distraction for some people, im personally looking into the woman's eyes to discover genuine answers and see true beauty.
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About a year ago, a female partner and i were laying in bed in the dark getting ready to have sex for the first time. She unzipped my pants, pulled my dick out and said in a stuttering manner, "oh wow it's ummm its so smooth." She called it smooth! Wtf? I know in her head she was thinking "small" which is fine, it doesn't bother me...but smooth, really?
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Im not unhappy with mine at all. Though its categorized in being "tiny" as it measures at around 4.5 inches erect and not very thick, im completely fine with that and im at peace with it. The size will never change no matter what, so why stress about it?
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Yes i definitely would, for several reasons. I think females are interesting beings and very intriguing. Also, by gender swapping, you get a better understanding of that person and hopefully that would eliminate a good bit of the battle of the sexes come to terms with things more often, lastly, im interested to know what it feels like to be fucked by a cock vaginally.
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Yes, I had oral and anal sex with a guy while his girlfriend watched one time. It was odd at first but shortly things lightened up.
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Quote by Marcie4you
And you shave your head?????????

What does my shaved head have to do with anything?
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Quote by Lustyrose4u
No problem for me, but can I get some lovin' from them too?

Oh yes in deed. You'll get your holes filled and pleasured before anything else smile
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Quote by sprite
amen, brother.

The urge came out of no where
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Im so horny im going crazy. I reeeeeally wanna bend over and get pounded deep by some good dick.
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Quote by naughtyannie
I might get a bit upset if they started taking more notice of each other than of me.

But I kind of like the idea of one guy fucking me while the other one fucks him.

Annie, you are exactly my kinda woman lol smile
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Quote by sprite
no, no, and no. smile

Good to see one female who's ok with the idea.
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Does it bother you to hear or read about the vivid details of two men fucking? If ever presented with a threesome with two guys, would it be off limits for the guys to suck each other off and ass fuck each other?
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I like when a third guy cums in my mouth or the females mouth then her and i kiss. I find it erotic.
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I enjoy laying a girl on her back, spreading her legs and start it off by kissing her stomach, make my way down, skip over the pussy and kiss her inner thighs while rubbing all over her. After a nice 3 minute tease, i make my way back up to her pussy and spread the lips apart and lick her clit. I slowly go in circular motions then constantly mix up the pattern and speed. After a while of tonguing the clit, ill then insert a finger or two, spread and move my fingers in different ways to touch all her walls while still licking and sucking her clit. By this time, my jaw has a minor burn-like stinging feeling shortly before slowly becoming numb...but i don't stop, because the more she grabs the sheets, arches her back up and down, crawls up the wall while her legs shake uncontrollably as she moans, the more i wanna keep on eating. You be the judge...am i a true pussy eater?
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Are you male or female? MALE.
How old are you? 22.
How many times a week do you masturbate? IF NO SEX, 10+ times.
How many times do you orgasm each time you play? AT LEAST TWICE.

Where do you masturbate:
In bed? More than anywhere else.
In the shower? Sometimes.
In the bath? Rarely.
Outdoors? When the mood is right.
At work? No.
Every room in the house? No.
In a car while traveling... ? Ill have to try this one.

What do you fantasize about when you play:
A significant other? Yes.
A friend? Yes.
A friend's spouse? Guilty.
A stranger? Yes.
A student? No.
A member of the same sex? Yes.
A past lover? Yes.

What position do you play in:
On your back? Often.
Standing? Not really.
Kneeling? No.
Sitting? Sometimes.
Lying on tummy? No.

How do you play:
With left hand? Sometimes.
With right hand? Yes.
With a toy? Yes.
With water from bath? No.
Written erotica? Sometimes.
Pictures? Sometimes.
Movie clips online? Yes.
Videos? Yes.
Something on TV? No.

What is your favorite porn:
Straight sex between man and woman? When in this mood.
Gay or lesbian sex? Not very often, but sometimes.
Group sex or orgies? Very often.
Blow jobs/oral sex? Yes.
Cumshots? Yes.
Anal? Yes.
Interracial? Sometimes.
Age play? No.
S&M? No.
Role playing? No.
Kinky? Yes.

Have you ever masturbated to:
Email messages? Once or twice.
A chat room dialogue? No.
Exchanged stories or pictures? A few times.

Have you ever:
Been caught masturbating? Yes.
Masturbated for a man/woman? Yes.
Masturbated for the same sex? No.
Masturbated in a group? No.
Masturbated for a photo? No.
Masturbated for a webcam? No.
Masturbated for a video? No.

Do you ever:
Play with nipples/breasts when masturbating? No.
Insert something or play with your ass? Sometimes.
Insert something in mouth when masturbating? Sometimes.
Use pain as a method of playing? No.

For men and women:
Do you taste your cum? Sometimes.
When was the last time you masturbated? Today.
Are you wet or hard now? Semi.
Are you going to masturbate now? Shortly.
Are you a masturbation addict? Yes.
What is the most you have played in one day? All day.
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Quote by lovekaty95


I wasn't necessarily meaning I would be afraid he would cheat on me. I was just saying in general. For example, if I were dating a bi guy and he broke up with me, then went on to date a guy. I was just saying that because I know I couldn't compete with a man for another man's attention. I'm sorry if I offended you!

Lol you didn't offend me at all beautiful. You were openly and honestly stating your feelings and opinions on a certain topic, no harm or offense in that smile I was just saying, not all bi men are going to cheat. It's terrible how there are people (straight, gay, bisexual and lesbians) that cheat on their significant other. It's like, hasn't anyone ever heard of monogamy and being faithful?!
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The moment I realized I was bisexual, I was younger and i was hanging out with my childhood friend and I started sucking his cock, after my mouth got tired, he penetrated me...deep, and thats what freaked me out cuz i REALLY loved the feeling of his cock going in and out of me. That was the first time I ever got a mouthful of cum, which I enjoyed. One week after that, I wanted him again so he came gave it to me again so i was no longer "curious"..but i was ok to be officially a cock loving bisexual. I've had 8 more guys after him anyways.