I don't think my fish ever really notice.

Massaged - oh, please yes. Licked and kissed - not so much. I have other places that like that particular attention.

He would be referred to a psychiatrist. If he persisted, he would be history.

I might ask "Are you going to ask me out?" Or, even more scandalously, I might just ask him out. Either way, the message is sent and hopefully received.

I've done the range: on some, nothing happens, because I'm deciding about possible future dates. On some, its fun and easy to kiss, make out and allow some groping. On others, especially if the first date is with a guy I've known for a long time, a handjob or blowjob is not out of the question, and depending on the "context" of the date, maybe going all the way will happen too.

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No thanks, I can see my bf's whenever I want.

I'd say its the motion and the guy doing the moving.

I was giving my current bf a handjob on our second date, which, other than some really great kissing, was our first "sex act". He was taking forever. Applied lube twice, then again, and again - he just kept on being hard and erect, and I just kept on stroking. I sucked him for a while, then back to stroking. After what I would say was at least 20 minutes, I asked him if anything was wrong - I was wondering if he was going to cum at all. He laughed and said that he was really enjoying the sensations, and that he was just holding himself back. I gave him a little love tap on his balls and said I was getting ready to give up.... he said he'd cum right away if I wanted. He leaned back and came about 20 seconds later. I was amazed then, and remain amazed - he can control himself very very well, but I suspect that his cock is not as sensitive as it should be. I have wondered if this might be a problem for him in the future, and suggested that he see a doctor someday. But, in the meantime, he's the only guy who's able to be stroked, sucked and fuck me for as long as I want ....

That its smooth, durable, warm and cuddly and soft and hard when I want it - and most of all, that it is attached to a guy I like. Actually, it can be any size as long as I like the guy its attached to.

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Displaying a total lack of empathy to jump at the chance to spin a tragedy into a political diatribe. And with all the inherent knowledge that a bostonian would have for the intricacies of California. Regurgitating made-up fox news soundbites only demonstrates that you know nothing and bring nothing. Shove your alt-right agenda.

Shove your leftism. There is nothing "alt-right" about my agenda - it is an inteligent, conservative agenda. Period. End of story. The victims of the disaster don't want "empathy" and "hand wringing" - they want and demand answers. I have some very liberal friends in the affected areas, and they're out for blood. They have been assured for years and years that they are safe, their property is safe and secure, that the firefighting plans and apparatus to contain fires were in place and adequate. Clearly, they were "misinformed". If you are looking at the disaster in California and NOT seeing that it is as much a disaster of political and environmental mismanagement as it is a financial disaster for those whose lives have been upended, I feel sorry for you. Years - decades - of political posturing and "kissing radical environmentalist ass" put them in a position of being unable to deal with a completely predictable natural phenomenon. Forest fires, floods, windstorms, etc have been a way of life for everyone since the beginning of time. We prepare for what we know is coming. To do anything else is criminal mismanagement, especially in an area so financially capable of being completely prepared.

Empty reservoirs? Rain and snow melt being sent to sea and not collected? Cultural and controlled burns of accumulating dead vegetation in areas prone to fire being banned? Hydrants with no water pressure? Fire department budgets cut to the bone? Equipment sitting unprepared and unmaintained? Dams being destroyed and dismantled? Blaming "climate change" and the "climate crisis"? Really?????? Is that the "responsible" liberal approach to addressing a problem that has always existed??

And calling me a "Bostonian" as if that, combined with your infantile "alt-right" attempt at insult is somehow going to make me back down - sorry.

I'm an outdoorsy person, and I hunt, fish, camp and hike all the time. I am quite aware of proper conservation techniques - we have significant forests here, and guess what? Our forest services actually do controlled burns every year. We practice proper forest management. Apparently, "California" should take some lessons. Oh - and as a chemist, I'm fully aware of the risks of stacked and accumulated dry fuel, high winds and low humidity and what they mean in an area where fires can spread with astounding speed. Are you? Or is your focus on empathy and "feeling good" and not being controversial?

At this point, empathy is a given, but accountability is on the front burner. My friends in LA - liberals that they are - have indicated their desire for serious consequences. One has told me that she wishes to see life imprisonment with no chance of parole for some of the "officials".

Are you one of those officials?

BJ any time, don't have to be on my period. Depends on the guy and the circumstances, but I have no problem giving BJs to friends.

For me it has to be MFM, not MMF.

I hate to choose. Dick picks are fun, especially if I get them from friends.

Women's bodies are gorgeous - every now and then I could sit and watch women walk by for hours. All those curves and parts on some women all move in such fantastic ways when they walk. You don't have to be bi or lesbian to enjoy the show.

I'm in grad school for chemistry. Almost finished with most of the work.

Not much time for real dating but do have a nice social life.

I enjoy outdoor sports - I don't really like sports on tv. I like shooting sports, sailing, camping ( winter camping is fun with the right people), hunting, swimming ( SCUBA!!)

Currently here in Boston it is about 15 °F ( - 9 °C) and cloudy. Probably warming tomorrow with snow early in the coming week.

Been to Ireland a few times.

Exercising is one of the main times I wear a bra - I found that the movement of my nipples across shirt fabrics while working out felt too good. I found myself masturbating in the sauna or pool after a running workout ....

Temp only although I would consider a nice small one around my ankle. Ice worn ankle bracelets and think they're fun.

I'm RC. The LBD is my "go to" for funerals.

Oral sex is a wonderful hobby! Love it. Do it whenever I get the chance.

Guilty. I'm a preferred customer at a few big stores in new hampshire.

Interestingly, I've also been making my own aerial shells and rockets since high school. Made some gorgeous mortar shell in college - 6 inch diameter. attention grabbers, for sure.

I went into chemistry because of fireworks.

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Why is this just a fantasy for guys?

Omg yes!! I would love to line a bunch of guys up and "check them out" ....

I get them once in a while, but get the "wolf stare" much more frequently.

And to put it in a very non-woke way - when they happen I've usually dressed to attract attention - so, no, I don't mind.

Passport - yes.

England, ireland, germany, italy, france, spain, morocco, israel, most Caribbean countries, mexico.

Most for pleasure, some for business, some for both.

Have not met any Lush people that I know of - but then, that's personal and I can't say that I've asked a lot of people.

Saw lots of naked people on Ibiza and France. Some in Italy. Didn't recognize anyone.

Too many friends who are M.D.s - no piercings at all for me, please. Nipple bars are cute, but not for me.

I have some fake "stick-on" bars and fake Moses jewelry for certain occasions, but they are fake.

My name is,really Erin, and I wished ( for a long time when younger) to have D-cups ... As you can tell from my pics, they are definitely not D-cups, but I no longer care. I like the way they are, and so does anyone I care about.

I’m OK with them, and actually think they’re humorously attractive in some cases.  When I was in college and lifeguarding – and we wore one- or two-piece suits on the beach in the sun all day – my Mom warned me and other girls who guarded with me about “high beams”.

“Don’t worry”, she said, “you’ll figure out what that means some night when you skinny dipping”.

Sure enough, sometime mid-summer, we had a lifeguard party the first year I worked.  Beautiful evening, bonfire, partial moon – just enough light for bright or un-tanned objects to be seen easily.

Our tops cam off, and - lo and behold – bright white breasts bounding in the moonlight!  It was actually fun to see and participate in the moonlight bounce parade.

Of course, guys don’t sunbathe nude too often, so there was a nice collection of bright white cocks to see bouncing around, too, even though it was more than just the cocks – pretty much everything covered by their suits was white.  Amazing, bouncy, attractive and fun.

I have no problem with tan lines – I work inside too much to spend enough time outside topless to make that much of a difference.  And I don’t do tanning booths.

As tragic as wildfires are, some are really accidental, freaks of nature, unusual circumstances, and can truly occur regardless of the government in place. Wildfires all over the world have been happening since the beginning of time.

However, the recent (current) fires in California- the absolute out-of-control fires that have been predicted for years, but yet were met with utter lack of preparedness, and some arrogant smugness by the State administration officials - are a different story altogether. The rampant and unfettered - and totally wrong - "environmentally friendly" decisions made by "green" lobbying groups, groups known for "eco-terror" and the wrong-headed support of junk science in place of proper forest management are completely at fault here. Decades of unmanaged dry brush, empty reservoirs, diverted run-off, non-functioning hydrants (and, with no concrete evidence presented to data but significant amounts of hearsay, video feeds and some forensic evidence) and arson, merged with the naturally occurring Santa Ana winds c built the perfect firestorm to destroy a local population center and an economy. Fires can and will ALWAYS occur, but NOT like the recent LA Fires.

The Liberal/progressive (yes - Democrats AND Republicans) governments that have controlled environmental policies and decisions in CA for decades is completely to blame.

Wait - this was written in 2018? You mean the democrats in government have learned NOTHING since 2018???? Look whats just happening ALL OVER AGAIN in 2025 ......

Time of California Democrats to be dumped into the ocean.

Fuck the government and fuck the lockdowns.

I think emotional intimacy is more difficult and "rewarding". Giving handjobs or blowjobs or having sex is relatively easy - you can emotionally disconnect during the act if you want to -- but actually sharing emotional intimacy - being vulnerable, kind, loving, considerate, thoughtful - those can be hard but are always so rewarding. And- if you are involved in emotional sharing and intimacy, you generally remember it really well. "Physical intimacy" -- sometimes not so much, and it can just disappear into the collective memory.....

there are a lot of gullible people.