I think this is a far more common thang than most of us realize. I'm not married, but a few friends are, and from what I've heard, the sex starts dropping off after about 3 years, or after the first child arrives. When I go out with my single girlfriends, we get hit on by guys in their 40s and 50s, and story is usually that they need some fun with a woman because the wife has stopped or doles it out sparingly. I don't know if its the same for women - but I suppose it is. I will not date a guy I know is married, no matter how sad his story is - I just won't be the other woman or a home wrecker. But a few of the older guys I have hooked up with have problems with getting a hard erection. They get semi or chubbies, and thats OK - they're hard enough to get in and feel nice, or blow, but the guys have real problems with self confidence. I have almost felt like a social worker with one of them - he needed major boosts to his self confidence and after a while, voila - his erections were improving.

I don't really know what else to say other than it seems to be a problem with boredom, maybe monogamy being unhealthy for some people, or maybe they just weren't compatible in the first place except for fucking...

If I ever get married and find my husband's cock having trouble when he gets older, I'll do my best to be a good lover.

Women have it so much easier than men when it comes to having sex.

The freedom and mindset of "casual sex" has, I think, totally changed the way a lot of people consider sexual relations, and I am one. Although they are intimate encounters, I don't really consider blowjobs or handjobs as emotional sex - it is "fun" or "convenient" sex. If I'm out with a guy for the first time - or even many times after the first - I'm far more likely to give him a handjob or blowjob. I love giving blowjobs - I feel that they ae very enjoyable gifts from me to a friend. They don't normally generate a commitment and usually don't imply anything more than "I like you. Lets have some fun and enjoy each other". I also think that if a guy offers "to return the favor" he's having fun, and I usually accept the offer, but not always - I think (for me) that is getting personal. But I love being eaten out!

Vaginal sex is either "getting your rocks off fucking", or a very sensual and sensuous intimate experience - I rarely have vaginal sex on the first date - but of course I have. And I will usually progress to vaginal sex with a guy after I get to know him and can call him a real friend. At the "real friend" stage, there is an emotional component - and that is a wonderful feeling for me.

Having sex is supposed to be fun and pleasurable and pleasant. I don't like being hit, and I don't like hitting others. But I will kick a guy's ass if he's rough with me after I make it clear that I don't stand for that stuff.

Yes. I'm a nerd and enjoy their company. I've found them to be actually quite nice, sometimes very horny, and very willing to try new things.

I don't have big tits - I usually don't wear a bra. I've long ago gotten used to guys looking at my tits, and I don't mind. Sometimes I'll wear a blouse perfect to set up a down-blouse or other type of peek. I have tits. Guys (and a lot of girls) like to look at tits. Personally, I think they're marvels of engineering - perfect curves, incredible suspension, stable extension -- I'm mesmerized by them sometimes. Some of them can be hypnotic as they move so softly and seductively when their girl walks. Some tits just seem to be impossibly pert and curvy and not saggy - and they are still soft and firm and wonderful feeling. Yes, I have felt other girls tits - starting back in middle school when I didn't have them but some of my classmates were already sporting B or even C cups - I was curious. Now I've got nice little B cups and love them - am happy with them, and don't mind when they're noticed (as long as it isn't creepy).

If we're at my place, I get up and get us some toast and coffee. When he's enjoying the toast, I'm enjoying a hot breakfast snack straight from the tube. Then I'll have some toast and coffee.

I will occasionally give myself an enema if I am fairly certain I'm going to have anal sex. I'm not really a big fan, and I just like to think I'm clean and the way in is free of "debris". There are only two guys I know that I will do it with - both have long and skinny cocks. If I'm going out with one of them or might be somewhere they are and think I'll probably end up having sex with someone, I do the enema.

Yes. First time, I was about 16. I was on the beach with a bunch of friends, surf casting (fishing) and just hanging out on a secluded part of a beach in Chatham. Mixed group of guys and girls. One of the guys got up to take a leak in the dunes. Then my "boyfriend" at the time got up to do the same. I followed him, curious. I had seen his and other cocks before, but hadn't seen one actually pee. We got over the dune in time to see the other guy just taking it out and starting the stream. I don't know if he knew we were there, because he was having fun shooting the stream all over. I told my bf that that looked like fun, and could I hold his when he did it. He laughed, pulled his cock out, it was soft and flaccid and smallish, and told me to hold it between my thumb and fingers and point it out and away. He told me when he was about to start, and I could feel a little vibration of something - the pee moving through it made it feel different to me - I was used to holding it when it was much larger and harder and shooting cum, not pee. So - he started peeing and I started squirting at everything he could reach. It was a lot of fun. Its not really any sort of turn on, just fun. I've done it with a few other guys - they get a kick out of letting me do it.

I have had pity sex with my roommates father. He and I had had a very nice and friendly relationship, and his wife (my roommate mom) was always very welcoming. Her Dad and I flirted a bit, and his wife got a kick out of it. The flirting never went anywhere. Anyway, she became suddenly ill, and passed away very quickly and unexpectedly. About a year after her passing, my roommate and I went to her house for a visit. We talked for a long time, and we both thought it would be good for him to get out and meet some nice women. He said he already knew a few nice ones. When he said that, I swore he was slyly looking at me - and I had this immediate feeling or warmth and longing in all the right places. Nothing happened that visit. He came to school to see us one weekend. Roommate had a long afternoon lab class, so he asked me to go to lunch. It was a lot of fun talking -- and flirting again. He asked me up to his room, and I knew what he wanted. He offered me a drink and just blurted out that he had feelings for me, that he thought they were wrong, but he couldn't help it. I think the whiskey he gave me must have given me a little push -- I walked over to him and planted a huge kiss on his lips. Our tongues did a nice dance, and he cupped my butt and pulled me in real close. I could feel just how excited he was. We went to the couch, made out for a few more minutes during which time my blouse mysteriously flew off. He paid wonderful and masterful attention to my boobs and nipples, and I had a mini-orgasm. I unzipped him, pulled out his cock ( average, respectable, and on the thick side) and sucked him off. As I sucked on him, I wondered just how many other mouths he had been in. When he came and I swallowed his cum, he said it had been years since that had happened. I promised him I'd do it again if he ever wanted. It didn't take him long and he was hard again, and my slacks and panties were nowhere to be found -- I climbed on top of him, lowered myself onto his shaft and push my boobs in his face. We pumped and pumped and gyrated, and he came with an intense orgasm. The biggest surprise was next - he said he wanted to do something he used to love to do in college but his wife never liked - he got between my legs and ate me out like a pro, sucking out every bit of our combined juices he could get. We kissed and our combined tastes was wonderful, and he retained a little in his mouth and I took it in.

We had to clean up and leave to get my roommate, so we showered - and I gave him another blowjob in the shower.

We have gotten together several times when we can - he knows I see other guys my age, and I've encouraged him to find a nice companion closer to his age, but assured him that I loved every bit of his attention, and will have him as a lover for as long as he wants.

Any question asking about comparing his "performance" or his "size" to any of my friends or previous boyfriends. It screams insecurity, and probably means he's going to be having performance anxiety at some point. Adios.

I know some older men that I think are hot and total hunks. I've fantasized about 2 of my Dad's college roommates! Older men are sexy and usually know a lot about how to satisfy a woman. And, yes, I've been with a few older guys. Lots of fun and lots of experience.

I knew a guy like that in college. Wonderful guy with sort of a hair trigger. When we were getting into it, we'd play around a bit then I'd give him a nice blowjob. That gave him a half hour or so to play with me, and he usually hardened up again in 20 minutes or so. His hair trigger was a lot less sensitive, and we could do some nice fucking. He was still a bit faster than most guys, but I like him and didn't let it bother me.

I let a boyfriend use a digital camera I had in college take pictures of us - he was very creative, got many angles but he wasn't great at holding the camera steady. What had wonderful potential to be a video journal of me giving him blowjobs and fucking just became a bumpy jumpy hard-to-watch mess. There were a few very nice interludes - a few great shots of handjobs and blowjobs. It was my camera, it was not wi-fi enabled and I controlled the pictures.

A funny story - I was looking through a box of old pictures my folks took when they were dating and in college - long before they were married. I found one my mom took of my Dad by a Christmas tree they had somewhere - he was naked, sporting a very nice hardon ( I thought it was impressive ), and it was decorated with tinsel and Christmas balls. I showed it to mom, who laughed and then sighed "that was a fun party..".

If I didn't know him, I would probably just ignore him, hoping it wasn't me causing it, and then I'd hope he wasn't hanging around or coming to my blanket.

If I knew him, I'd be hoping it was me causing his erection, and I'd have a little wardrobe accident to see if he notices - then I would innocently say Hi. And see what happens.

If I can't get my hand wrapped completely around it, or if I'm having trouble getting more than an inch or two into my mouth -- thats thick for me.

I have with my boyfriend when either of us is travelling. We'll get on zoom or fb chat or whatever. I'll set my laptop up with a nice spread of me, and let him watch me have sex with a cucumber of a banana or sausage - which I'll then eat after I cum. He generally stand and gets his cock up real close to the camera - I can see his precum and imagine just how it would feel on my tongue. When he cums, sometimes he shoots directly at the camera (and I tell him its going to ruin his camera someday), but he usually cums into his hand, shows me the handful of cum, and then eats it. At that point, I'm usually ready for more cucumber --- and I'm sure the NSA guys who monitor all the web traffic enjoy our playtime....

I've met my fair share of penises - as long as it works, I'm OK with it. ( I guess I've been lucky in that I've never seen one only 2 or 3 inches. The smallest in my sampling was about 4 inches, and he certainly knew how to use it. )

In college, my bf and I went camping with two other couples. After we hiked and sat around the fire telling stories, drinking and making out, we went to respective tents. That boyfriend had a gorgeous cock that was just perfect for doggystyle - thick and long. Well, we got very into it, and being a little tipsy, I couldn't get enough of him and his staying power increased when he'd had a little to drink. Also - he was making me queef like crazy. Loud queefs. Slurpy, wet foghorn queefs.

The next morning, he and I were the last to emerge from our tent (I wanted to give him my special "good morning blowjob") - and our 4 friends asked about all the noise from the night before. We could be heard very clearly, my moaning and queefing - all over camp. A little embarrassing, but then it wasn't as if everyone else wasn't fucking too - they were just being quiet.

The next time we all went camping, they made us put our tent a little farther away from the circle .... just in case.

I love the taste. I love watching the drops collect and ooze out of his slit - I like to put the tip of my tongue in there to coax some out! Some guys product a lot and actually drip, and some produce just a few drops. When I'm fooling around with a friend and reach into his pants, if I can feel the precum I know I'm in for a treat - and then I take my hand out and lick my fingers while looking him in the eye! Its just a really fun thing to play around with - sort of the pre-sex activity.

Of course. We're on the couch, its just natural to lean on him, then lie down with my head in his lap. From there - the bj is almost automatic. One thing for sure - while watching a movie and playing with a nice cock, I'm not tempted to get up and get snacks. Giving bjs is a good weight control technique. Movies, football games, basketball games, baseball games - all great times. Often have friend couples over - sometime get to sample someone else's friend.

Don't have a son at this point, but have done it with some friends' younger brothers.

When I was in sixth grade, back in the days of runaway adolescent hormones and hardons, a female classmate pointed out a few of the guys standing "funny" while up at the board doing problems or whatever. She pointed out if you looked close, you could see the outline of their boners - some of the poor guys would just get them all the time. I always thought they were so much fun to look at. I loved it. Still do. That summer, I was at a house party and got my first glimpse of a naked cock in person. I was hooked.

How often? It doesn't usually happen at work or when I'm in a professional situation (but I will cast a quick glance to 'check things out' if I think he's cute). If I'm with friends somewhere, and a new guy happens to enter "my space", of course I check him out. When we're out at a club, on the beach, or anywhere social, I think that checking out the cocks is part of the fun. And the guys certainly know it.

Yes. Visiting [Removed for ToS], I hid and watched his gf fuck and blow him a few times. sitting with him.at breakfast the next morning was interesting , having seen him.in action. I finally got him to myself a few times when I turned 16. Told him I'd been waiting a,few years .... Lol. At a girls party [Removed for ToS], there was big make out session ... Saw lots of hand jobs and boobs, some fucking, and I was watched giving a friend a blowjob.

Lots of times in college in dorm rooms, beaches, etc. One particular time I was in the backseat with a friend on a long xi country drive to a,football game. I was horny, thought I was quietly sucking on him. I opened my eyes after a bit, cock in mouth, to see my roommate peering at me from the front seat, smirking. She gave me a ' keep going' sign, so I did, but kept my eyes on her as she watched my friends cock slide in and out of my mouth. He came, and I showed him and my roommate my mouthful, and swallowed. She applauded. It was the kickoff to a sex-filled weekend with a little football thrown in. Lol.

Every BLM or antifa "demonstration". ...

Every time I hear kamala or Tim or schumer or aoc or Schlaib or Crockett or Biden or warren - or any of the other numerous losers on the left, all I think.of is a collection of whiny lefties whose heads,are exploding as their USAID gravy train is shut off. Its hilarious to listen to their lamentations ....

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The problem with responsible owners is that there are so few of them. Gun safe is a nice oxymoron; the only safe gun is a disassembled gun. Preferably kept somewhere outside of the home.

Totally disagree. There are about 200 million of us - and many with multiple guns. If we were a problem, it would be a big problem.

The problems come from accidents and stupid people doing stupid things, not from people responsibly using and storing tools.

Great question.

The first several stories I wrote had me as either the central character or a,strong supporting role. I changed a few things about me, but stayed close in general. In that way, I started seeing my characters as limited and even boring - how many ways can you have the same character doing the same things?

So, as I've started to write some new stories, I am not a character in most of them, and in some I'm mentioned as a participant in some,activity but not as a central character. I've also done some in depth chats with my boyfriend, my roommate's boyfriend and even a male cousin, asking for their perspective on participating in various activities.

New characters and new points of view ( at least in my stories) are being considered, just to keep things interesting.

Nothing like having sex on a beach watching fireworks- and having the exploding aerials as a perfect backdrop to your friend orgasming and shooting his load for you....

Not yet, but it is on my list. Oh - but if you count doing it on a boat in 1 mile deep water -- many times sailing with friends in the Caribbean.