I am a bottom. It's just who I am.
Take time to get to know the person and then decide how to move on. Age, physical appearance etc. become less relevant. It's just a matter of taking time and finding out what people are really like.
Oral sex is very special and for me much more intimate than being penetrated. To be enjoyed carefully and completely. It's a beautiful way to show you love someone.
Carnations
Freshly-baked bread
Patchouli oil
Roses
Long t-shirt and knickers