I would rather have a good blow job. It is intoxicating when my lover is creative and generous in such an intimate way. I think all the different types of touching make is super hot: hands, hair, lips, tongue. Damn!
In my opinion, the big difference is emotional intelligence.
The sexiest outfit is one selected for that particular time & place. If a woman is super thoughtful putting together The Look and she feels confident & sexy, it adds to the magic of the moment.
I prefer trimmed & shaved. I love kissing, licking & playing down there and trimmed or shaved is more tidy for that.
I 100% agree with Soccermom. As a matter of fact, I bet I could write a sexy story just letting my imagination run wild thinking about three words: Soccer Advanced Wordsmith.
God Yes! The intimacy of going down on my lover is almost overwhelming.
I like high heels before having sex.....wearing great heels can set the mood, tone and style for an evening date. Its like the foreplay before the foreplay.
Do you share your favorite toys with your lover or keep a few "secret" toys?
Any great stories of breaking furniture when getting hot & heavy with your lover?
What is your favorite music to set the mood with your lover?
Mark Knopfler of Dire Straits