I DO NOT Skype, KiK, exchange personal information, pics or videos.
I have lived over half my life and have just recently met my second lover. I have learned under his guidance..but, it was a flash-n-the-pan step back into life session. One I decided I would act upon and not crucify myself for later.

What i think I desire is soft BDSM. Firmness or discipline outside the bedroom, loving caring manner, but strict.....and dominance in.
Now, after chatting with some, I think they confuse this with abuse and dehumanizing, NOT the same guys.
Flip side, I adore sensousness, kissing, & touching. I love it. Candles, sweet music..the works. But when a man looks at you and firmly says....NOW...mmm, I melt a little bit. I do look for manners, language, decency, and the fact that you realize sex is played in the mind. Each move like chess...thought out and deliberate, willing to sacrifice to take the queen.

Interests
Hmmm, before I worked all the time?...concerts, camping, cooking, reading...no surprise but especially historical erotica, hiking, jet skis, lounging at the river with or without friends...animals (horses and dogs), friends & family, cookouts....

Favorite Books
I love to read but no favorite books really. I like most genres and so if it is recommended by a friend...I'll check it out.

Yes, I read the 50 S.o G., terribly written and the movie portrayed a wife beater...awful.

Favorite Authors
Again, no. I just enjoy well written books/novels. My desire to read a collection many times is because they are a series...and my curiosity just can't stand it... again if it is well written.

Favorite Movies
Fast & the Furious all, StarWars, Startrek, the Notebook, Cars, Cinderella, Kiss the Girls, UP!, Transformers, Through Your Eyes, Man From Snowy River 1 &2, TOMBSTONE, Young Guns, Lonesome Dove, John Wayne Westerns, action flicks, feel-good, suspense, no horror or stupid. I love good humor but not stupid humor.

Favorite TV Shows
NCIS, CRIMINAL MINDS, PERSON OF INTEREST, BIG BANG THEORY, HAWAII FIVE-O, THE VAMPIRE DIARIES, THE 100, FLASH, ARROW, Ask Steve Harvey...many

Favorite Music
Country, CONTEMPORARY CHRISTIAN, R&B, ROCK, HIP-HOP, BLUEGRASS, CELTIC, GOSPEL, I just don't like heavy metal/head banging.