Stopping in the middle of sex for whatever reason.
- it's too long
- it hurts
- too sick to continue
- just not into it
- need to use the bathroom then doing something after
- said something she didn't like
- laughing too much
- answering a phone call and it's family memeber.
- falling asleep
- etc.
Out of all other thing is alright as long as I could finish. I had few partners that would do one of those often.
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How fast can you cum?
I've been having a hard time lately pulling a quick one. Masturbating or sex. Even with a large gap in between sessions ( a week). I was able to do a 3 minute or less jerk off maybe a year ago.
Just wondering if this comes with age. I'm little over mid 20s.
I know, usually people want to know very opposite, but this is important. haha.
I've been having a hard time lately pulling a quick one. Masturbating or sex. Even with a large gap in between sessions ( a week). I was able to do a 3 minute or less jerk off maybe a year ago.
Just wondering if this comes with age. I'm little over mid 20s.
I know, usually people want to know very opposite, but this is important. haha.
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Not too long ago, I met a girl from a hookup site and we met at a local pub and I brought her back to my place. Nice 22-year-old suburban girl, petite with nice round tits. Just from looks I would think she would be a keeper. She seemed pretty cool to, sounded like she was pretty out going and open minded. Well after we had sex, I thought she would go home but she was getting too comfortable still naked lying on my bed.I asked her if she was going to leave and she asked if she could stay over night because she didn't want to wake up her parents. Next day, I had to go to work, I told her to make sure she locks up before she leaves. I came back home from work around 8pm and she was still there. I didn't mind, she was cute and pretty fun to hang out with. We went out and she paid for dinner. Came back to my place and had sex couple of times and she stayed the night again.
Day three, came back home from work and still there but she was in different clothes. Day four. It was a Saturday, after morning sex and I kind of told her she can't stay place because I am going to have some guest over in the afternoon. She said she needed to go home anyways. Later that night she texted me that she wanted to get her panties and I told her to come over. She came over and stayed over again. Day five... I told her to leave. She got pissed off and left. Haven't talked to her since and she deleted her profile on the site I met her on.
What would you do in this situation? I made it clear before we met, that it was a hookup and nothing further than a one night stand.
Day three, came back home from work and still there but she was in different clothes. Day four. It was a Saturday, after morning sex and I kind of told her she can't stay place because I am going to have some guest over in the afternoon. She said she needed to go home anyways. Later that night she texted me that she wanted to get her panties and I told her to come over. She came over and stayed over again. Day five... I told her to leave. She got pissed off and left. Haven't talked to her since and she deleted her profile on the site I met her on.
What would you do in this situation? I made it clear before we met, that it was a hookup and nothing further than a one night stand.
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Doggy style position... Male is thrusting along with good rythem, enjoying the view of that nice ass, bouncing forward with every thrust. Female moan out with pleasure, commanding, "faster, harder, faster harder". Male put more effort to meet the demand of the female, then the female demands a spanking. The gentle man aim to please, gives the female a light but firm spanking synchronizing to the rhythm of his trust. The female, not satisfied with the spanking requests the spanking to be harder. The male complies, apply a little more force and velocity. Stiffening his fingers firm "spank, spank, spank." Yet the female is still not satisfied, demands the male to man up and spank her like if she has been a bad little girl.
Not all the girls that I have been with but a lot of them like to be spanked. I know it's preference and it is enjoyable, but makes me wonder why the receiver enjoys it so much. I wonder what they feel. I personally don't like enduring pain during sex. For example, I would never say, "bite my penis. I've been a bad boy." or "twist my nipple till it turns red and purple. I want to bleed bitch." haha. I've done role playing with some pain elements scripted into it but that is all out of fun.
So the ladies that enjoy being spanked, what do you feel and why do you feel that way? Does it place you in a state of intense euphoric?
My partner often asks for spankings and it not usually light spanking. After sex, her beautiful soft pale skin turns red and pink. I asked her why she likes it but she just say it feel good and she can't really explain why.
Not all the girls that I have been with but a lot of them like to be spanked. I know it's preference and it is enjoyable, but makes me wonder why the receiver enjoys it so much. I wonder what they feel. I personally don't like enduring pain during sex. For example, I would never say, "bite my penis. I've been a bad boy." or "twist my nipple till it turns red and purple. I want to bleed bitch." haha. I've done role playing with some pain elements scripted into it but that is all out of fun.
So the ladies that enjoy being spanked, what do you feel and why do you feel that way? Does it place you in a state of intense euphoric?
My partner often asks for spankings and it not usually light spanking. After sex, her beautiful soft pale skin turns red and pink. I asked her why she likes it but she just say it feel good and she can't really explain why.
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Quote by stormdog100
Two words: Duct tape! It fixes anything, and it will certainly keep those suckers from flopping around so much!
I know, I know - and you're perfectly justified in sending me back this picture... Love your avatar, btw - I've got a pair of those beauties nesting in a box on a tree at the edge of the lake, in my backyard, right now!
Stormdog - Your opinion matters. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. If they do, slap them backhanded.
You are absolutely right, Duct tape fixes anything. I used it to reattach my car bumper, fixed leaky pipes, patch hole on my canno and i even fixed relationships by tying them up until they agree not to break up with me. JK.
You are absolutely right, it will certainly keep my balls from flopping around. I am going to try that next time.
AND, what I am going to do is, when I cum, I am going to peel the duck tape off my nuts fast as I can. Bet that will feel great adding to my orgasm. lol.
DUCT TAPE RULES!!!!
Yeah, those Wood Drakes are really colorful.
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Quote by joannemouse
Apparently the actresses drink a lot of water before doing the scene and apply a lot of pelvic control to make their pee look like squirting.
Incidentally Laci Green does a nice vid on squirting if anyone is interested https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aa_WEcC1uBw
Joannemouse - Yeah, I found some a blurb on faking squirting. The video I saw talked about an actress using a douche to fill her vagina with water and simulate ejaculation. lol.
I tried to find the video again so I could share the link here, but I can't remember where I got it from. Damn it.
Anyways, I really enjoy watching the intensity of the orgasm when they squirt. I don't know if I want that much liquid soaking my bed. The only girl I been with that could squirt the amount was so little I didn't care. It was small enough to look like a love stain.
Here is a clip of female ejaculation
https://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postsm2044613_Female-Ejaculation-Comp.aspx#2044613
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I have hooked up with plenty of unattractive (not attractive to me)girls. I work like a maniac leaving my love life to a minimum so I will take what I can get for sex and if I have to I will take the unattractive ones too. But to my surprise, I had really good sex with some of them girls that I don't have any attraction to.
Like few of months ago, I hooked up with a girl that I knew for a long time but never thought I would have sex with her. She is short and skinny with an unusual size head. Her body was like disproportional; she had long skinny legs and short body with.
Once in a while we texted each other and one day I asked her if she wants to hook up. She came over to my place around 10:30pm that night with food. After we ate and washed up a little, it was on. At first it was awkward with a giggles here and there but once we got into it, holy crap!!! Although she had a weird body portion her tits were pretty nice. They were like two softballs, nice and firm. She moved well, her bjs were awesome. When I was going down on her, she moved around knowing what she wanted and her orgasms were explosive. She wanted hard and deep. I smacked her ass so hard and she just took it.
Since then, she came over about every other week. I just saw her last Friday.
Right now, I have a partner who is very attractive but works similar to me as an attorney, So we hook up often to fulfill our sexual needs. But when she in stress mode and she either shuts down or work all day, I have to find it somewhere else and a lot them aren't that pretty.
Like few of months ago, I hooked up with a girl that I knew for a long time but never thought I would have sex with her. She is short and skinny with an unusual size head. Her body was like disproportional; she had long skinny legs and short body with.
Once in a while we texted each other and one day I asked her if she wants to hook up. She came over to my place around 10:30pm that night with food. After we ate and washed up a little, it was on. At first it was awkward with a giggles here and there but once we got into it, holy crap!!! Although she had a weird body portion her tits were pretty nice. They were like two softballs, nice and firm. She moved well, her bjs were awesome. When I was going down on her, she moved around knowing what she wanted and her orgasms were explosive. She wanted hard and deep. I smacked her ass so hard and she just took it.
Since then, she came over about every other week. I just saw her last Friday.
Right now, I have a partner who is very attractive but works similar to me as an attorney, So we hook up often to fulfill our sexual needs. But when she in stress mode and she either shuts down or work all day, I have to find it somewhere else and a lot them aren't that pretty.
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Lately, and I felt this before in the past, when me and my partner are in the doggy style position and going hard, my balls sometimes starts to get sore hitting it against her ass. You guy know what I mean? You thrust forward and your ball hit against her clit or whatever area. It gets pretty sore. So we change position, but I don't want her to be on the top if she is going grind and most of the time she does. So it's back to missionary or on the side, which isn't bad but I like doggy style. Or bj finish isn't that bad either.
Can anyone relate?
I asked my friends about it but most of them say they have never experienced it besides the only two married guys out of the group.
I just wanted to see if anyone else experience this.
Can anyone relate?
I asked my friends about it but most of them say they have never experienced it besides the only two married guys out of the group.
I just wanted to see if anyone else experience this.
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Quote by 1nympholes
It is my understand that when you see a girl squirt in Porn Video's you may be seeing more than there is to see.
Does anyone know if that is true or not.
Wondering what you mean by, "seeing more than there is to see".
Are you insinuating that the ejaculation could be fake? Like they have a tube hooked up squirting water? I'm not saying that it can't be true but That would be hilarious. lol... Movie magic. hehe.
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My advice is, take it slow and do everything to make her comfortable. Candle lights, wine, music, low lights, or even tea if she not a drinker or under age.
When I encounter someone that never had sex or not very experience, I use a lot of humor to get her relax. It will help you relax as well.
Have confidence and take the lead so she doesn't have to worry about figuring out what to do. Maybe tell her that you are going to lead her. Don't be a porn star - acts you see in porn is way too intense. you can play out fantasies when you both feel comfortable. Take it slow and sensual.
Look for facial expressions and ask her if she is experiencing any discomfort. Foreplay is also a key to helping her get into the mood and like what DDoll said, maybe start with your fingers. Don't just shove it in but play around the Va JJ by rubbing first and slowly for a finger in. Lube is good, but i recommend using water based lube. The petroleum base might cause a discomfort reaction. You could get that at your local adult shop. Don't be embarrassed and ask for help. I buy all sorts of perverted stuff at my local shop often and some of them know me by name. haha.
And the most important thing - WEAR A CONDOM!!! you don't want your first time to be an experience. I am not saying kids are horrible, but you got you whole life ahead of you. I had a buddy that got a girl pregant his first time in high school. it wasn't good.
Don't buy cheap condoms and make sure it's lubricated.
It might not happen at all the first try. i have been in situations where the girls were virgins and they weren't ready. Sometimes its a progress.
I remember my first time, we were both virgins and didn't know what the hell we were doing. I actually didn't use a condom, but luckily, it was hurting her so we stopped. It took us about three tries to actually finish.
Good luck and be safe
When I encounter someone that never had sex or not very experience, I use a lot of humor to get her relax. It will help you relax as well.
Have confidence and take the lead so she doesn't have to worry about figuring out what to do. Maybe tell her that you are going to lead her. Don't be a porn star - acts you see in porn is way too intense. you can play out fantasies when you both feel comfortable. Take it slow and sensual.
Look for facial expressions and ask her if she is experiencing any discomfort. Foreplay is also a key to helping her get into the mood and like what DDoll said, maybe start with your fingers. Don't just shove it in but play around the Va JJ by rubbing first and slowly for a finger in. Lube is good, but i recommend using water based lube. The petroleum base might cause a discomfort reaction. You could get that at your local adult shop. Don't be embarrassed and ask for help. I buy all sorts of perverted stuff at my local shop often and some of them know me by name. haha.
And the most important thing - WEAR A CONDOM!!! you don't want your first time to be an experience. I am not saying kids are horrible, but you got you whole life ahead of you. I had a buddy that got a girl pregant his first time in high school. it wasn't good.
Don't buy cheap condoms and make sure it's lubricated.
It might not happen at all the first try. i have been in situations where the girls were virgins and they weren't ready. Sometimes its a progress.
I remember my first time, we were both virgins and didn't know what the hell we were doing. I actually didn't use a condom, but luckily, it was hurting her so we stopped. It took us about three tries to actually finish.
Good luck and be safe
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I had a girl in the past that could squirt. Not much, just a drizzle but it didn't seem much different from when she just orgasm without squirting, Watching some porn, it seemed like when girls ejaculated fluid, they have crazy mind blowing orgasm, leaving the body twisted and limp.
If you can and when you ejaculate, does it intensify you orgasm?
If you can and when you ejaculate, does it intensify you orgasm?
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Pussy is sexy. I love diving in and eating till until I filled. If the girl would let me, I would do it for hours. haha. It's even better in a sixtynine position.
It's personal preference. I know some of my buddies disagree and would spend minimal time down there but I swear to them, they are missing out. haha.
I really like it when I make my partner cum through oral, feeling the muscle tense, pushing up while sucking and tongue flicking her clit. When she gets nice and wet and her cum starts seeping out... slurp. haha
I have this sofa chair with a ottoman, prop her legs on the ottoman, get between her legs and go to town. the best.
It's personal preference. I know some of my buddies disagree and would spend minimal time down there but I swear to them, they are missing out. haha.
I really like it when I make my partner cum through oral, feeling the muscle tense, pushing up while sucking and tongue flicking her clit. When she gets nice and wet and her cum starts seeping out... slurp. haha
I have this sofa chair with a ottoman, prop her legs on the ottoman, get between her legs and go to town. the best.
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I do all the time but not on my work computer. I just use my personal devices. Actually, this site was introduced to me by a lady at my work and time to time she would link me some stories that she likes.
I remember we were at a company social at a restaurant after work. After it was over, me and one of my work buddy went to the bar just effing around rating our co-workers and who we would bang. At one point we were talking about a stuck up, overworked, and underpaid intern and that she just need a one night stand to lighten her mood up during work. I was joking around and made a whole scenario about how would court her to bed and I would write a epic story about it. All of the sudden, that lady came behind us and started talking about her love of erotic literature. haha. It was a night of cocktails and spirits so our tongue were loose. So she was really getting into it and she told us about this lush. Soon as I got home, I popped on my computer and the night was consumed with some of the hottest erotics ever. I read all night and most of the morning before I fell asleep. And when I woke up I got on again.
Thank you lush.
Anyways I do read Lush at work and actually share with my co workers.
I remember we were at a company social at a restaurant after work. After it was over, me and one of my work buddy went to the bar just effing around rating our co-workers and who we would bang. At one point we were talking about a stuck up, overworked, and underpaid intern and that she just need a one night stand to lighten her mood up during work. I was joking around and made a whole scenario about how would court her to bed and I would write a epic story about it. All of the sudden, that lady came behind us and started talking about her love of erotic literature. haha. It was a night of cocktails and spirits so our tongue were loose. So she was really getting into it and she told us about this lush. Soon as I got home, I popped on my computer and the night was consumed with some of the hottest erotics ever. I read all night and most of the morning before I fell asleep. And when I woke up I got on again.
Thank you lush.
Anyways I do read Lush at work and actually share with my co workers.
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I've bought one of my exgf a vibe that never owned one before. It was a really nice one that didn't look too awkward so she would feel comfortable using it. I bought it for her because at the time I job required me to travel a lot and I want her use it when she felt lonely or during video sex with me. Never got her to do the video thing. She said she didn't use it when I was out of town but when I come back home that thing was all over the place. I found in the shower shelf, tucked under the side of my sofa, on my book shelf, in the kitchen, etc. 
Whenever we used it during sex, I did notice her reactions were more lively and her moans were louder. When she oOoOOed it seemed intense.
I like sex with toys. It makes sex a little more kinky. My regular partner has a lot of toys and I got few of my own. It makes sex fun and session is longer with a lot of foreplay. I recommend any couple or self to incorporate toy in there sex life.
Whenever we used it during sex, I did notice her reactions were more lively and her moans were louder. When she oOoOOed it seemed intense.
I like sex with toys. It makes sex a little more kinky. My regular partner has a lot of toys and I got few of my own. It makes sex fun and session is longer with a lot of foreplay. I recommend any couple or self to incorporate toy in there sex life.
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I usually watch porn or read some stories. But if it depends on where I am at the the moment.
When I don't have access to any erotic materials, sometimes I fantasize past girlfriends or girls that I want to bag.
Sometimes, if I met a hottie that day I fantasize about her.
Yesterday, I ran into one of my exs at the store; skinny little brown hair girl with beautiful green eyes. Last night, she was the only one I was fantasizing about, eventually I had to have a visual. so I found some hot pictures of her when we were dating. haha.
When I don't have access to any erotic materials, sometimes I fantasize past girlfriends or girls that I want to bag.
Sometimes, if I met a hottie that day I fantasize about her.
Yesterday, I ran into one of my exs at the store; skinny little brown hair girl with beautiful green eyes. Last night, she was the only one I was fantasizing about, eventually I had to have a visual. so I found some hot pictures of her when we were dating. haha.
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I do notice a difference in sensation but I don't think I perform any different. Maybe if the condom does not fit right, it might be uncomfortable, but never experience that problem. I've used several different brands of condom, but for the past 4 years, I just use one brand made by a Japanese company. Best condoms in the world. I bought a case of these things.
Maybe the person is not very experience in the bed??
I prefer sex without a condom, but I rather put one on if it's a girl I don't know well enough.
Maybe the person is not very experience in the bed??
I prefer sex without a condom, but I rather put one on if it's a girl I don't know well enough.
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For me and my partner, it all depends on the time of the month.
We've been seeing each other for 7 month's now, some weeks her doors are closed and I can't get a hold of her. One time we didn't talk for a week and a half. I called and text but no response. Some weeks, she is in heat and I have a hard time keeping up. Like 2 to 3 times a day. She would come to my house like 4am before she goes to the gym. After work she at my house before I get home. Or she would stay at my house few days or I will stay at her place.
I just can't figure it out. I think it's stress induced.
Anyways, first post ever!!! and more to come.
DrakeAK
We've been seeing each other for 7 month's now, some weeks her doors are closed and I can't get a hold of her. One time we didn't talk for a week and a half. I called and text but no response. Some weeks, she is in heat and I have a hard time keeping up. Like 2 to 3 times a day. She would come to my house like 4am before she goes to the gym. After work she at my house before I get home. Or she would stay at my house few days or I will stay at her place.
I just can't figure it out. I think it's stress induced.
Anyways, first post ever!!! and more to come.
DrakeAK