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Destinedmortality
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 36
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Quote by elitfromnorth
This is the important part. If you have an affair and shit hits the fan then if you have any kind of decency in you(and I think you do, since you actually seem concerened about your kids, but hey, maybe I'm just naive here) then a broken marriage due to your affair will cause you to sit down and regret it, because it affected you AND your wife in a bad way. Same way that the affair, like overmykneenow, will cost you a lot of money.
If you try and talk to her and she pretty much gives you the finger and starts being defensive and hostile towards you with no intention what so ever of trying to change her way, then you start thinking if her being like that is a good place for you to be in. It's a pragmatist view and many will brand me as an asshole for saying so, but you're only one man and there's only so much you can do. If the misery is so big then maybe divorce is the only option that you have.
As of yet you haven't really done anything wrong. You've thought about maybe having an affair or sex outside the marriage, but you haven't done it yet! These people telling you that you should burn in hell and that you're a low life is something you should disregard.
But ultimately you should make a decision based on what is both short term and long term the best for your children. They are your number 1 priority.
Id take this guys advice, he speaks sense.
Ignore all those judging you. Things happen and ultimately a high percent of marriages are not fairytales. I dont agree with staying with someone that makes you miserable due to there being kids involved as in doing that you defeat the object and will hurt them anyway. If by getting the best from their 'rents means separation, then so be it. Those calling you derragotatory things are quite simply narrow minded, if you are not getting attention etc at home then eventually your eyes will wander.
I dont agree with cheating and regardless of how your marraige is now, you clearly loved your wife once, she has gave you children and someone who has shared such part of your life deserves honesty.
If you no longer want to be with her, get a divorce.
I speak from experiance when i say a woman would much rather have a relationship finished before an affair etc occurs, than afterwards and usually finding out the unsavory details.
Feelings and wrath could be spared if people thought more logically and about other peoples feelings first before reacting on their urges when there are other people still involed.
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I just want to bite that apple
In complete agreeance. That is a fine rear...come to think of it the rest of the body is damn good aswell. Kudos on taste!
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Oh yes, it feels amazing. Its not a strong feeling physically unless you come aswell, but emotionally it is very satisfying to feel him come inside you.
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Yes, its a part of sex...
And foreplay ;)
He is turned on by visualities, and as am i,
I like to watch too.
I dont begrudge a man wanking in his own time either, but if i watch him do it, i become horny and i get a bit jealous as in 'thats mine, i want to play with it now' - kind of way haha.
And foreplay ;)
He is turned on by visualities, and as am i,
I like to watch too.
I dont begrudge a man wanking in his own time either, but if i watch him do it, i become horny and i get a bit jealous as in 'thats mine, i want to play with it now' - kind of way haha.
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I am not a fan off lots of body hair.
But, so long as his under arms and chest are kept tidy i dont have a problem.
Back hair however is a turn off for me, but as far as his legs are concerned i dont mind either way so long as he does it for his own gratification. If he doesnt want to himself, then he shouldnt feel the need to!
But, so long as his under arms and chest are kept tidy i dont have a problem.
Back hair however is a turn off for me, but as far as his legs are concerned i dont mind either way so long as he does it for his own gratification. If he doesnt want to himself, then he shouldnt feel the need to!
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Because it makes you feel dirty and used and whats more, that feeling is enjoyable.
The fact that he isnt obsessivly jealous and could get off by watching me fucking another guy in front of him is...well... Hottt
The fact that he isnt obsessivly jealous and could get off by watching me fucking another guy in front of him is...well... Hottt
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Turn on!
Two guys i have met have refused to kiss me after ive blown them. As far as i am concerned that is ridiculous! It came from them!!
If i kiss my guy after he went down on me, it turns me on even more.
Two guys i have met have refused to kiss me after ive blown them. As far as i am concerned that is ridiculous! It came from them!!
If i kiss my guy after he went down on me, it turns me on even more.
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He was probably between 9 1/2" to 10 1/2"
It felt good because of how deep it got but he wasnt a guy who knew what to do with it, he thought size was everything and it isnt..you gotta know how to use it!
Between 7 and 9 is a nice size but personally someone who is smaller isnt a write off either, usually if they have less to work with in that department they make up for it with their mouth or hands as they have learnt how to perfect making a womans body react rather than just expecting it to because they think they have a big dick and that that is everything.
It felt good because of how deep it got but he wasnt a guy who knew what to do with it, he thought size was everything and it isnt..you gotta know how to use it!
Between 7 and 9 is a nice size but personally someone who is smaller isnt a write off either, usually if they have less to work with in that department they make up for it with their mouth or hands as they have learnt how to perfect making a womans body react rather than just expecting it to because they think they have a big dick and that that is everything.
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That depends on how special the guy is..
...either that or how horny i am as he is due to come.
I dont mind so long as his aim is not at my eyes since its rather uncomfortable when you get it in them. I suppose it depends on how i feel at the time, where we are and wether there is somewhere available to wash. If there isnt then inside my pussy is good, the thought that its there while your doing mundane things at work etc is a massive turn on!
I like it in my ass also but ideally you need to be in a comfey place to freshen up if need be..
And exterior wise..anywhere he likes, i like!
...either that or how horny i am as he is due to come.
I dont mind so long as his aim is not at my eyes since its rather uncomfortable when you get it in them. I suppose it depends on how i feel at the time, where we are and wether there is somewhere available to wash. If there isnt then inside my pussy is good, the thought that its there while your doing mundane things at work etc is a massive turn on!
I like it in my ass also but ideally you need to be in a comfey place to freshen up if need be..
And exterior wise..anywhere he likes, i like!
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I have been in that position and i can say that we were lucky enough not to get caught. Once someone did come close while walking their dog and as far as i could tell (not that i was either very coherent, or in fact would of been bothered) they did not jack off while watching, nor did the person join us haha that part i would deffinatly have been coherent enough to notice!
Although, the risk of getting caught was highly arousing, it was lust filled sex which unfortunately never was very comfortable when there are broken tree branches everywhere and soggy soil!
...But getting dirty was part of the fun ;)
Although, the risk of getting caught was highly arousing, it was lust filled sex which unfortunately never was very comfortable when there are broken tree branches everywhere and soggy soil!
...But getting dirty was part of the fun ;)
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Some women are adamant that they will not even attempt it and sometimes guys have to take that at face value, however if a girl knows her partner is into trying it because its something they enjoy then alot of us girls like to please, thus giving you a good chance of swaying her. the thing to remember is that if nothing is ventured then nothing is gained... and usually a girls first anal which happens this way will open up ther minds as to what can be enjoyable and also make them reconsider boundries.
Maybe the approach that if you try it and she doesnt like it you dont have to do it again. If they dont try it themselves then how can they know if there going to like it?
If they decide they dont enjoy it after they have tried it then fair play, all of us are different and some women dont like to try something which is so foreign to them.
I think alot of women, once they have tried it, if it has been made to be a comfortable experiance; ie. including it during sex rather than basing sex around trying anal, and also using lube and paying attention to other areas of their body at the same time, find it to be a pleasureable experiance and become to enjoy it as a healthy part of their lifestyle.
Anal for some people is still somewhat of a , and so for them i guess this is one of the reasons they are not attracted to it. I, like many other women think that because its it is still a little dirty and 'naughty', thus instead of putting us off, it makes us want to do it...not only that, but if with the right person, it feels fucking amazing!
Maybe the approach that if you try it and she doesnt like it you dont have to do it again. If they dont try it themselves then how can they know if there going to like it?
If they decide they dont enjoy it after they have tried it then fair play, all of us are different and some women dont like to try something which is so foreign to them.
I think alot of women, once they have tried it, if it has been made to be a comfortable experiance; ie. including it during sex rather than basing sex around trying anal, and also using lube and paying attention to other areas of their body at the same time, find it to be a pleasureable experiance and become to enjoy it as a healthy part of their lifestyle.
Anal for some people is still somewhat of a , and so for them i guess this is one of the reasons they are not attracted to it. I, like many other women think that because its it is still a little dirty and 'naughty', thus instead of putting us off, it makes us want to do it...not only that, but if with the right person, it feels fucking amazing!
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Personally, as a woman i think that as long as both people (or however many people are involved) enjoy wherever the dick goes and what it does to the persons while its there, is what counts. Every time you have sex i think it depends on your mood and whats driving the desire, as to where being fucked feels best at that time. either way, at some point, all three; the pussy, ass and the mouth play a massive part in the enjoyment and fulfilment you get from the sex.
today i might want to be fucked in the pussy then i might want to suck dick, with the ass last. Tomorrow depending on how i feel, my ass might want attention first.
Now, i bet if we were to speak about where a girl likes the man to finish, or where the guy likes to, there would be many different answers. and Im not just talking about these three areas of the female anatomy!
today i might want to be fucked in the pussy then i might want to suck dick, with the ass last. Tomorrow depending on how i feel, my ass might want attention first.
Now, i bet if we were to speak about where a girl likes the man to finish, or where the guy likes to, there would be many different answers. and Im not just talking about these three areas of the female anatomy!
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sometimes taking off your clothes takes too much time; if its passionate, lust driven sex, then keeping your clothes on is sexy!
whats to say you cant take them off for round two ? ;) you get the best of both worlds right there!
whats to say you cant take them off for round two ? ;) you get the best of both worlds right there!
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Deffinately a yes to both..i like the tease in public as well..a playfull slap on my bum when shopping is a massive turn on for some reason and if he hugs me from behind or pulls me into him for any reason i get my own back and rub my ass on him..guaranteed, that when i get him home where going to have some fun!
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Loyal and humourous
..not that by only using two words can i articulate the 'perfect' partner, but they are two which are important...amongst others! Being passionate is also important, be it over their career, the relationship or even a hobby, or in their own opinion(s).
..not that by only using two words can i articulate the 'perfect' partner, but they are two which are important...amongst others! Being passionate is also important, be it over their career, the relationship or even a hobby, or in their own opinion(s).
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Destinedmortality..... you just have turned me on! If I was writing from the male point of view, I'd be the mirror of your post. LOL
Haha! Ahh well I'm not alone then ;) glad to hear a male perspective on what turns them on is somewhat similar to my own!
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If he tastes good, id gladly swallow. If he doesnt then im sure that he can come omewhere pleasurable for both of us!
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The foreplay, stimulating conversations and those innuendos that get you wet before he even touches you. The tease in his words and his goading. How neither gives in easily to being the first to make the move, but in the end one of you caves in, or when he decides hes just going to take you and thats that! Either rough and desperate or him being tantalisingly slow so it becomes excruciatingly heavenly..
Anything from the foreplay to the sex which involves him groping my ass, coming up behind me and feeling his breath on me. His contact with my neck and ears and the eventual dirty talk that lets me know whos boss. By then my body wil gladly take anything he wishes to give or i wish to beg him for!
Anything from the foreplay to the sex which involves him groping my ass, coming up behind me and feeling his breath on me. His contact with my neck and ears and the eventual dirty talk that lets me know whos boss. By then my body wil gladly take anything he wishes to give or i wish to beg him for!