Before you ask, yes my name is actually Daphne Blake.  Blake is my married name.  I was named after Daphne from Scooby-Doo because my older brothers loved the cartoon when it came out and my father thought it would be cute since Mom was a redhead and it was likely I would be too.  Guess it was serendipity that I fell in love with a "Blake" lol.  So, now that the obvious is out of the way, here's the rest.  I'm 49 and holding, married and mother to a 22 year old and a 25 year old son.  I'm an educator, currently working with our cyber program, so I get to teach from home- yay!  Hubby and I have an open relationship since he travels most of the year (civilian contractor for the military) and we both realized that for our sanity, we needed other...outlets.  So before you ask the next question...yes, I have, but only after they've graduated.  And the answer to the next question is the kids know and honestly don't care.  They are not involved in any way, shape or form, so please don't ask or insinuate.  If you do, you will be immediately ignored.

I spend my days keeping everyone else on task and making sure everything is taking care of, so when I'm out here, I'm looking to escape all that...turn my mind off for a while and just respond and react rather than lead and initiate.  I suspect you can figure out what I'm talking about.  I'm looking to be enjoyed and used, not abused.  I'm not into really rough or kinky stuff, but don't be afraid to pull out a collar and leash or some cuffs or a blindfold.  And though I'm bi, I do prefer the company of women most of the time, but I prefer to company of intelligent and interesting people all the time.  

If you're simply going to say hello or ask me how I am, don't do it in a private window.  Do it in the room.  If you private message me with some benign greeting or something of that nature, chances are you will be ignored.  If you want my attention, prove to me you read my profile and make it something you think might intrigue me!