It's sad that a guy would have a problem with his own cum. It amazes me that there are guys who have never tasted their own cum. Yes, after a man cums the hotness of his sexual drive has deflated. Yet as a man I have tasted my cum in my wife's mouth and it is hot. She has given me the cum of another man in a hot kiss during MMF. That's really hot. And I've gone down on her after I came in her, very hot, and after the other man in our threesomes came in her. Once you get over our society's negative sex programming you'll find it to be hot, very sexual, and quite intimate.
If we're having a threesome with another man, sharing his cum is a way to highlight our intimacy, our coupleness after she's enjoyed sex with another man. It also makes me more intimate with her even though she's enjoying another man. It's a very powerful we during a three.
Headspace too often gets in the way of real intimacy and the sharing of it in sex. There's so much negative headspace on sex and especially sexual juices. Changing that headspace can really juice up intimacy and sexual sharing.
The equivalent would be if a man gargled with mouthwash and washed his face immediately after going down on his woman. It makes that intimate pleasure seem much less intimate and much less pleasure. Our society is very sex negative, so we all have a lot of hangups about oral intimacy that we have to get over. It took me till my mid twenties before I went down on my lover. I discovered then that she didn't taste "bad", rather it was very hot and tasted very sexy.
To have a woman spit your orgasm immediately after such a delightful and powerfully intimate oral lovemaking makes it seem not intimate, not love making. To have her lock your eyes and swallow the fantastic pleasure of cumming is one of most powerfully intimate expressions of love possible. The same as a man enjoying every flutter of his lover's orgasm, every drop of her pleasure. Imagine him making a face and running to the sink.
As many have said, it's simply much easier to swallow, it's already in your mouth, the quickest way out is a quick swallow. I know because I've sucked cock at my wife's behest. I've had more than one man cum in my mouth. I've shared cum with my wife, both my own and another man's. It may take a time or two to get used to it, but it doesn't have a lot of flavor. There is more going on in the mind than in your taste buds.
If you don't really want to swallow, finish with your hands and let him cum free. That is very pleasurable and visually exciting for him. Make an excited face and don't run to clean off your hands. Let the cum spurt onto him and then he can deal with it. Keep it exciting. There is so much going on in our minds, so much more than goes on in our smaller heads.
Emotional infidelity is an important part. And it goes two ways. A partner who isn't giving themselves to the sexual union can't really complain when the other comes here for some relief. The responsibility goes both ways.
We have played with married men. It's so sad to listen to how their wives just aren't interested in sex any more. Of course we only hear one side.
Honesty simply works better. That doesn't mean sharing everything you do, but it does mean coming to an agreement about what you can do separately.
Simple. Talk to her. Tell her you loved the sex experimentation. Is there something you can do to make it more fun? Communication.
We all have our emotional ups and downs. It helps to talk about them. Communication.
The number one problem in marriages and relationships is lack of communication.
Watching your wife have sex with another man can be both an amazing turn on and provoke feelings of jealousy. The way to deal with jealousy is to deal with it, face it, communicate. Jealousy can be tamed with good communication and practice. Watching my wife with another man is hot, erotic, and makes our sex even better. It does inspire feelings of jealousy occasionally, especially when she really gets into it and is loud with her orgasms. Yet that is what makes it erotic and hot, when she has loud orgasms and really gets into it. For me it's well worth the price of dealing with natural and normal emotions.
She also can feel jealousy watching me with another woman. Most of the time, though, she is aroused and will make suggestions, jump in, play with my balls as I'm sliding in and out, kiss her breasts or make out with her.
Practice helps a lot. And is a lot of fun.
As a guy, sucking your first cock may surprise you. Your own cock can feel so hard to you. When you suck a cock you may be amazed at how soft it is even when hard, how its skin feels soft, luxurious, velvety. The most amazing aspect to me is how powerfully sexual it is, different than going down on a woman, male sexy, a lot of sexual power. Having the power to make a man go crazy with pleasure, to make him think only about your mouth on his cock, to take him right to the edge where his only thought is cumming. And then to feel that first spurt in your mouth! Powerfully sexual. It gets me high to devour a male orgasm, to feel the pulsations of his spurts, to swallow liquid orgasm.
One thing to consider: my wife and many other women get aroused watching you suck a man off. They can get wild urging you on, giving suggestions, joining in and applauding when they witness you devouring his orgasm. They've sucked cock before, so to see you do it makes you more sexy, more sexually wild in their eyes, desirable. And it makes MMF threesomes so much more fun.
