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Daddypleaser
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female
0 miles · Jacksonville
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In fantasy yes, in reality probably not. But then I've been known to blur the lines between fantasy and reality.
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I felt his balls tighten and cock swell. The taste of him was pure ecstasy as he came down my throat in warm spurts. I swallowed every drop.
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I take my friendships/relationships seriously whether in real life or online. But exclusivity needs to be agreed upon and go both ways.
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Open your mouth.
Yes, good girl.
Daddy likes that.
Don't cum yet.
Take my cock.
Swallow every drop.
Yes, good girl.
Daddy likes that.
Don't cum yet.
Take my cock.
Swallow every drop.
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Guide her by your reactions. If you want to be in her mouth, tell her that. If you want to be touched, move her hand to where you want it. Then, as I said, guide her by your reactions.
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Honestly, 90% of the time I watch porn I'm by myself. I like to sneak and watch/masturbate at work and other naughty places. Plus, my husband has expressed to me on more than one occasion that he does not like the fact that I watch porn, so he's not likely to join in anytime soon.
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Yes very much so. I like a man who isn't afraid to take charge in the bedroom. I'd much prefer a dominant man, and I don't think that being forceful means painful or mean. It's animalistic, it's sexy, it's passionate. A loving man can still be forceful between the sheets ;)
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It completely depends on my mood! I'd say spanking and dirty talk, but there are times I need to be dominated to a much higher degree. It's wonderful when one can find the Daddy/Master who knows just what I need and when!
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I like tattoos on men and women. I think they're sexy and fun. But I don't particularly look for tattoos on someone, to each his own.
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I agree wholeheartedly. Submission can be a beautiful way of relinquishing the control you have to maintain in the rest of your life.
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I would have to say yes, though there certainly have been some occasions where I have not. But I Definately make up for it in the long run.
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Quote by Entire_essence
I knew, but was quite scared of it, to fully understand, let go and trust. Totally different contrast to my real working life when I am a very dominant business woman. I have, like others, tried to learn with others, but it truely isn't full filling unless you meet your match.
Limits yes but they are very personal between me and my Daddy Dom, which have fallen by the sides as our love and trust overtakes any apprehensive. There is a difference between someone opening you up and allowing personal growth, rather than cruelty and using one for self humour or ego trip.
Wow, yes.
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Quote by MdeSade64
Daddypleaser I do agree with you to a certain extent. In my previous post I made the comment about incompetent wannabe doms. I used that reference because if a real DOM calls a sub a "bad" sub, then they don't know how to communicate with their sub. I have had subs with whom it wasn't going to work. But I knew that and I would never say that they are a bad sub. That was my point. You don't blame either the sub or the Dom(me) for it not working. You simply say sorry ad move on.
I have had the typical "one-nighter" but that is different for an on going relationship. With those there is an emotional investment. We need that to make it work.
Yes it takes so much to make a bdsm relationship work, just like it would any other relationship. I think I understand your reference better now, and agree. Are you basically saying that a committed Dom will evaluate him/herself first when/if something doesn't work? Look to see what cues may have been missed or what needs may have been unfulfilled? Use the experience to grow as a Master rather than just throwing his hands up and saying "bad sub!"? I wholeheartedly agree, but would chance saying a sincere sub ought do the same.
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I read all three, they were ok. I'll probably see it, and it will probably be ok. I don't get what all the buzz is about for either honestly.
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This thread is a wonderfully necessary conversation. I find myself reading certain entries and think "wow- he or she really understands/sees things how I do." Two or three posts later, the same person, not even close. I think a dom must teach his sub and learn from her (or him) at the same time. Similarly, a sub must learn from her dom and teach him as well. How else do you really learn to satisfy someone at every depth?
I think it's important to remember that neither role in the relationship can be taken lightly. Both have seperate, albeit different, vulnerabilities. To label oneself as a "Dom" or "Sub" does not make that individual one-size-fits-all. It does not change the fact that we all all different, we are all human beings, we are all unique. It can not be assumed that if one is a dom and the other is a sub they MUST be compatible. That is as ridiculous as saying if I am a lesbian, I like ALL women. Pure silliness.
Perhaps it is too strong to say "bad dom" or "bad sub". There is such a wide spectrum in the lifestyle that maybe it is just more likely that the "bad" dom/sub is looking for something a bit different? I find it laughable to think that just ANY good, experienced dom would work for any sub. That seems so generic. The level of trust required in this type of relationship requires much deeper of a connection for me than that. Finding the right person should be a journey. Nobody is born knowing exactly what they want, or even what the need. But being a submissive does not mean you need just ANY Dom.
Wow! You can make me cum? Congrats, so can my middle finger...
One may be able to submit to that experienced dom physically, but emotionally is another story. And I believe that is where the beautiful magic happens.
I think it's important to remember that neither role in the relationship can be taken lightly. Both have seperate, albeit different, vulnerabilities. To label oneself as a "Dom" or "Sub" does not make that individual one-size-fits-all. It does not change the fact that we all all different, we are all human beings, we are all unique. It can not be assumed that if one is a dom and the other is a sub they MUST be compatible. That is as ridiculous as saying if I am a lesbian, I like ALL women. Pure silliness.
Perhaps it is too strong to say "bad dom" or "bad sub". There is such a wide spectrum in the lifestyle that maybe it is just more likely that the "bad" dom/sub is looking for something a bit different? I find it laughable to think that just ANY good, experienced dom would work for any sub. That seems so generic. The level of trust required in this type of relationship requires much deeper of a connection for me than that. Finding the right person should be a journey. Nobody is born knowing exactly what they want, or even what the need. But being a submissive does not mean you need just ANY Dom.
Wow! You can make me cum? Congrats, so can my middle finger...
One may be able to submit to that experienced dom physically, but emotionally is another story. And I believe that is where the beautiful magic happens.