Much rather cum in her mouth. Could never figure why a man wanted to jack off, when there is a willing mouth and pussy in arms reach.
I was married only once in my 85 years. That marriage lasted 15 years, and she didn't suck once. I lived with a lady that once she moved in, blow jobs were very infrequent, until I said, either suck it, or I will find somebody that will. After that she sucked me every week, and swallowed.
I have been the unwilling, unknowing cuckold in both of the long term relationships I have had in my long life. The first was a marriage that ended as a disaster for all involved. The second ended when she died. It was then that I found her burner phone, lube, rubbers, and complete changes of clothes in her car. While the first ended in a disaster, the second was more devastating, as there was never closure.
At my age (85) no longer have a bucket list that I can hope to fulfill. All I have is memories fulfilling my past Bucket List. Threesomes both ways (strictly hetro on my part) Mile high club, flying first class from Santiago to Bogota on Lan Chile, Public sex in a park, on the beach (never again, that damn sand) Watching a live sex show (in Rio more than once) Watching a live Zoo sex show ( TJ Mexico, wild watching her fuck a dog) Being with a prostitute Rio and Vancouver, BC, Picking up a streetwalker for a Blow Job, My lady and I hiring an escort to please both of us, and sex with many beautiful ladies over the years.
We use a different lexicon for different situations. As a male, when I go to the doctor I have a penis, testicles and a scrotum. When I am in a sexual situation I have a cock and balls. Same with a female; with the doc, she has a clitoris, inner and outer labia and a vagina. When she is getting fucked, she has a clit, pussy and cunt.
Hasabrain2: You are wrong about the desire for sex going down as we age. I am 84 and still have an active libido. It is the ability to preform That goes down hill. Prior to the Covid lockdown, using Cialis I could achieve an erection strong enough to have intercourse. As I had lost my lady, I enjoyed high end Vancouver escorts about every 60days. Tried to plan the trip when there was a Art Show opening that I wanted to see. In between used local streetwalkers for oral. To maintain an erection now, with all of the new meds that I have to take for my worsting health, is a grand surprise.