If I'm hot and ready to go - I'm not missing a beat and will just keep going. Once we finish I may have a few questions though, lol.
If you're looking for a toy that you can control while you are both separated and will also work once you are back together I recommend Lovense products. I personally own the Lush 2 and can allow my partner states away to control it using an app on the phone. I too tend to be a clit girl and while the Lush can be inserted for the gspot, it works to just tuck on top of the clit too - and quite effectively I might add!