Also, thank you all for writing positive, helpful and kind replies, much appreciate.
R.
Very much appreciate your responses, Kink, Beffer, Pink and Bottleblonde, thank you.
Desires fluctuate and not always easy to read. As mentioned everyone is different and may even have different needs or desires given the moment, or, what they have been watching.
Exploring and experimenting can be fun too. Looking forward exercising the fingers further,; tongue and other parts for that matter!
All the best,
R.
Very much appreciate the replies KJessica and Reggie, thank you.
Great to have another view of the issue, will keep the filing up to date!
All the best,
R.
A fan myself of being masturbated by hand, or foot for that matter, I'm wondering how women feel about clitoral stimulation.
Here is why I ask: We were having a very enjoyable evening in bed, stimulating girlfriend with my finger, very pleasurable it seemed for both. This was a slow, intimate time, she continued to "take it" until she came massively, squirting and wetting the bed badly. I've never came without physical stimulation but this almost made me, I was dripping precum like crazy.
Having said that, other times I'll be stimulating her and she just pushes my hand away and says "do me" when I would rather keep playing with her.
I try to take care of my nails but occasionally she'll say you're sharp and this obviously ruins the mood for both of us. Perhaps I need professional nail work? Or should she just encourage me to use a different finger?
Do you like it a little or until you cum? How offensive is it if there happens to be a sharp piece of nail that catches you?
Swirls, vs back and forth, soft, hard, slow, fast?
It would seem obvious there are many different likes and dislikes. However, hearing your thoughts may provide some commonality.
Curious as I really enjoy the intimacy of playing.
Would appreciate your time and energy to reply.