Greetings everyone, my name is Rebecca, but please call me Becca. I'm 45, happily married bi mom of 3 kids (2 daughters and a son) living in the UK. 

I was raised in the country and was lucky to be raised in a close family. I left home when I was 17 to go to university. I fully admit, I was a bit of a slut and fully enjoyed myself. 

I met my husband Adam when I was 19, but I did cheat on him while we were dating. When I turned 20, I finished university and I settled down. Adam and I decided we wanted to go travelling for a year before we settled down and got jobs. 

Adam popped the question while we were travelling and when we came back home a year later we got married. We both got jobs and settled into a normal life. I had all 3 of my kids within 2 years, first my daughter then my son and then my other daughter.

After being married for 12 years, I ended up making a mistake on a friend's hen night. I admitted the truth to Adam when I got home, but to my great shock. He wasn't as upset as I thought he would be. He admitted to having a fantasy about seeing me with another guy. I was shocked, but was kind of glad too. We agreed to open our marriage then and have also gotten into swinging too. 

All 3 of my kids have moved out now and I'm proud to say, they all married and have kids of they own. I still see them all pretty regularly and of course they still need "help", i.e. money now and again.

I come to Lush to chat with other open minded people, especially other women and moms with similar experiences. I have been on other chat chits in the past, so believe me nothing at all shocks me. So, feel free to just ask me anything you would like to know. 

Thanks for taking the time to read this. XX