I'm a 42 yr old male love reading erotica. I don't do the social media thing and I have honestly only chatted a few times. I know I'm soooo old but not doing those things gave me some free time  to actually live and experience some things.. learned we all have our own inner sexual self (inner slut) some find there's early in life, some later, unfortunately others never do. I am a non believer  that hopes i am totally wrong ( i am not though) I would hate to get to an eternal  after life and the conversation being the best thing you could do on earth was ....... and then living all eternity  damning my self for being to scared or vanilla or judgmental to have let myself go and tried that at least once. So i try to be 100% open to suggestions especially when I get off on some things i would have said never in a million years would that be for me then i try and its the shit... also i am a total switch and  rarely  if ever would ask for something  sexually that i myself would not do the same or similar