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ChrisX
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 33
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There's no reason to be rude, there would have been an aswer here sooner but the big machine that checks boyfriends' brains is clogged up at the moment. Sadly, Up until then it will not be possible to tell you why he doesn't want to have sex with you. Since there is no indication that it will work in the near future it might be smart to ask your boyfriend about it, if you indeed love him. If you don't then it's time to break off, as your gamer boyfriend probably would say: 'gg no re'.
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Quote by Dudealicious
remember, is this a sister from another mother of yours?
If brother from another mother is a thing then I'm sure there are plenty of feminists who want to have something like that as well so i'd be careful with labeling that sentence as gibberish
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Quote by overmykneenow
I have a theory on this that I came with when I noticed that most of my friends who are 6ft or over have wives/gfs shorter than the average height for women
The theory goes like this: tall guys are attracted to shorter women because they look more attractive facially. What a load of crap, I hear every woman over 5'5 grumble while the short ones nod sagely in agreement with me... but hear me out.
Take a pair of twins and stand each of them in front of two men - one man the same height as they are, the other a foot taller. From 2 yards away Twin A looks straight into the eyes of the shorter man and looks pretty much like her passport photo. Twin B however has to tilt her head upwards, firming the skin around the jaw, fore-shortening the face so that it tapers slightly towards the chin and the eyes seem bigger - all of which are seen generally as more more attractive qualities.
People understand this, which is why there are a billion facebook self-portraits taken by people holding their phone up above their eyeline. Short girls, naturally go around like this all the time.
Well that's my theory anyway
Friends of mine sometimes complain that alcohol lowers their standards so when they wake up the next day with this chick they get a heart attack. None of them realise this happens everytime for us tall people when we get a clear look at most girls' faces.
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So would I, but where I live the words "MILF" and "Cougar" don't exist, and they only consider them perverts if they practice necrophilia, or .
I'm pretty sure that a group of girls would refer to that 40-year-old guy who tried to buy them a drink a pervert or a creep. Either way, back on topic, since there's demand for that category there isn't a reason for it not to be there, like lafayettemister said:
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If you don't like the MILF sex category, don't read it. Some people don't like the Reluctance category, should we do away with it too? There is no DILF category because it's not wanted or needed.
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I don't agree with your definition of MILF. Indeed it's not always used to describe a mother but when you use it the second part of its definition usually applies, i.e. someone you'd like to fuck. Nothing second-rate about it, it's more a compliment. As a matter of fact there are plenty of guys who actually prefer a MILF over women of their own age for the same reason a lot of girls are interested in older guys, experience. Why there's no term for the female equivalent? Perhaps you gals have to learn to come up with catchy names yourself so something goes mainstream and eventually it can be found in the dictionary as well.
As for cougar you could argue that it's a much nicer term than its male equivalent. I'd take it over pervert any day.
As for cougar you could argue that it's a much nicer term than its male equivalent. I'd take it over pervert any day.
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One of the main factors in that specific case is that other people know about it as well. When the other, maybe not as important as the partner but still important people in your life judge her for that then it tends to make it infinitely harder to get over it. Especially when you're not 100% comfortable with it either. And this scenario holds for other kinds of histories as well.
In that aspect most of us are really shallow, men and women alike.
In that aspect most of us are really shallow, men and women alike.