I'm old enough to know how it’s done and young enough to still enjoy it. I work in the public sector and am very discrete.

Everyone lives two lives. One is a public life, the life that everyone sees and knows us by. Our actions are dictated by the perception and the impression that we want others to see, accept, and feel towards us. It is how our friends and acquaintances perceive us and the normality of life.

The other life is our private life. That life and our thoughts hold our deepest darkest secrets and feelings, and desires. That is the life that we may or may not even share with our loving spouse. That is the life that we live in our own minds and hearts and we can’t let anyone know about for fear of rejection, ridicule, or possible shame from our friends and peers. This site allows me to live my secret or private life.

In talking with several people on this site, they warned us of stalkers. If you are one don’t bother us. If you want to discuss private desires and wants and will share, we will share back. You want to be a friend and willing to have the same respect that we do for you, please be our friend. But if you are a stalker, don’t bother us, we will defriend you as fast we befriended you.

Interests
Open minded women that enjoy good company, wine, and a good time, which all makes for good friends. Making friends first and then see if an adventure will happen.

Favorite Books
There are many

Favorite Movies
Way to many to list, she likes romance and I like action

Favorite Music
80's & 90's