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Captain_Commando
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 42
0 miles · England

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Back in the late naughties, strategically placed lots of questionable items (condoms, BDSM magazine, lube, panties, you know the score) in a work colleague’s bag thinking he would be next to open it. Sequenced shorted, but he ended up at our biggest customer and without checking the bag emptied the entire contents in front of their ExCo……they didn’t remain a customer for much longer.

Have you ever accidentally revealed a sexy secret about someone else unintentionally to anyone?

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Last Sunday.

FWB and switchy kink partner.

It was shark week for her, so my turn taking it 😵

In bed and in the shower, in a variety of positions.

Now working away for the month. Worst bit is I’ll return when she’s likely back on her period. She says her strapon will be ready and waiting…..looks like the end of February will mostly be spend on all fours, feeling very full.

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Going to unleash the sexiness…..

Hard hat, hobnail boots, rubber overalls and grey boxers. Not sure a pastel coloured thong would quite go with the rest of the ensemble, but I had considered how I could pull it off 🙂

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You know it. Not sure a day would be long enough, but definitely on the gender-switch bucket list would be:

  • Getting filled up with cum - want to feel it oozing out of me. How does it feel when it spurts in you and starts dripping out.

  • Blow jobs - having my mouth filled up but this time with big, luscious lips and long hair. Does cum have the same impact when it hits your throat. Having your breasts squeezed whilst devouring cock…..so many things to experience.

  • Breasts - just having them on demand to play with and admire. Walking around with them and using them to flirt. Also, I guess figuring out the pitfalls of negative attention….need to get both sides of the coin.

  • Dildos - how big can I go and what size, shapes, girths does my girly body cater for.

  • Thongs - how does they feel without the balls on either side 😂

  • Wetness - how do moist panties feel….do you notice when you’re wet….so much to discover about wet pussies and being turned on without the overtness of a boner.

  • Pads or tampons - well, you gotta know how it feels and you cant have it all good, right?

  • Lesbian - you only get once chance and it’s hot in my male persona, so does it live up to the billing?

Hundreds of other things, but I think that’ll keep me busy for a day

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Last Sunday.

FWB and switchy kink partner.

It was shark week for her, so my turn taking it 😵

In bed and in the shower, in a variety of positions.

Now working away for the month. Worst bit is I’ll return when she’s likely back on her period. She says her strapon will be ready and waiting…..looks like the end of February will mostly be spend on all fours, feeling very full.

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Never directly but back in 2016 and for the next 18 months, I was with a partner who was a full-time pro Domme (and still is to this day).

One of her massively lucrative income streams was from videoing and custom clips and often this would require a second person….you can fill in the gaps.

So, I’m on Adultwork just never had my own account. I occasionally see some of the images as stills on other platforms and every so often pop back into AW for a cheeky reminisce.

Some of it makes me cringe, some I’m glad I’ve done and moved on, others still give me an instant boner. Good times

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Definitely a turn-on for both parties. Completely different experience if it’s gone with refinement and grace. Guys, don’t just slap on any old bra and panties because that’s just crass.

Take time to trim, pick a set which matches and compliments your body, go with something that adds an sense of intrigue and naughtiness, have a matching pair you can wear at the same time, coordinate wearing them for that extra delightful ‘just us’ secret.

Also kinda helps my ass looks hella hot and toned in a pastel coloured thong 🤫

Done right, it a massive horn tap for me and whoever I’m doing it for…..remember guys, sometimes the frame is more beautiful than the picture

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Subjective question and can vary massively.

I frequently work away and a combination of boredom and easy access to porn means at least daily and quite often twice a day.

When not away, it tend to average out at 3 - 5 times a week because social commitments, life admin and having other distractions gets in the way.

Huge caveat on the above is if I’m with a play partner and we’ve got a dynamic in flight such as chastity or saving up a load for a particular occasion. That means it drops to almost zero and my penis begins to hate me and every second is spent thinking NSFW thoughts!

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Speaking here as an ex-top who has gone 360 and landed somewhere in switch with bottom leaning tendencies country, but everything depends on the dynamic, the personalities and what is allowable or acceptable to BOTH parties.

Having grey lists or pink lines discussed and clear is one way of ensuring punishments are allowable to all involved.

The key should always be on praising or facilitating the desired behaviour, however, we’re all human and transgressions will happen. Punishments should always be proportionate to the misdemeanour and should allow for an apology or offer of correction.

No generalisation for unusual really exists. What is a red line for one person is green for another. Often, from my moderate experience, taking one or a handful of the grey list items and adding a twist is normally a pretty responsive and consensus way of enacting a correction.

I could offer examples of things I know I would consider a punishment (definitely not a funishment) that do not stretch my red lines but I’d make them clear from the outset so everyone is on a level horizon.

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Going to shatter the illusion here and bring reality into play but….when I first wake up, 80% of the time I need to pee.

So, the theory works better than the practice unless extreme watersports are your gig 💦