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Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 41
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Quote by cheatingfemalewanted
Okay so I was thinking because I know this has applied to me in the past. I've wanted to be cuckolded but my ex partners wouldn't go for it.
It made me quite miserable but at the same time guilty because they were great in every other way.
1) Do you have a sexual fantasy that you've wanted to try out so badly... but your partner has refused?
2) If they've said no... do you fantasise about it during sex?
3) Have you ever ended a relationship because your sexual needs haven't been met?
4) If you've stayed with someone even though your sexual needs aren't being met, has it made you unhappy?
I have a bit of a crazy outlook on this so bare with me. I know the way I live my life simply will not work for everyone. That being said I am simply unwilling to compromise when it comes to my needs in life being met weather they are sexual or not.
First of all a real lasting relationship to me is the melding of 2 people into one....that means you should be able to share 100% of who you are with that person without judgement, disrespect or jealousy. That to me is the purest form of love there is and I do not feel that love is a once in a life time thing. As humans love is one of the most confusing and complex feelings we have you love all of the people in your life in some form the amount of that love that is shared between you both is what makes a relationship vs a friendship.
This was not always the case with ex's, In fact one went so far as to try to shame me out of being bisexual and tell me that the thought of me being with another person disgusted him especially a woman. I personally think this was all part of his "God" complex. He had to be my world and there was not room in my life for ANYONE other than him. Not family, not friends, no one. Very unhealthy relationship which is exactly why it was very short lived after he made that clear. I did wind up ending the relationship simply because the 3 month time period following our conversation about who I could and could not love or spend time with was just too painful and made me miserable. I felt constantly judged by him as if being myself was not ok or safe. It was all I could think about I was consumed with fantasies. Life is just too short to be that unhappy or to be denied the things you desire or long for just in order to stroke someone's ego.
I really think there is someone out there for everyone and its not always easy and its not always smooth sailing but when it is worth it you will know and all the noise will disappear and hopefully what you are left with is something so special it gives you a reason to live.
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I wouldn't consider Lush a porn site....and I know a thing or two about porn sites as I work for a company posting porn on porn sites. haha 
If I get caught on lush at work I might be in hot water but if i get caught on a porn site at work....well, I'm just doing my job.
If I get caught on lush at work I might be in hot water but if i get caught on a porn site at work....well, I'm just doing my job.