mostly I think it is the room trolls .. when they want to private everyone ,, as they forget that this is the sex sight that isn't .. that ask those things
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LOl! It is 110 degrees in AZ. I am wearing as little as possible.
and that almost always includes something girly and pink! ;)
That would be appropriate here, too, though we're not quite that bad. Only 84 but very humid. I'm wearing a golf shirt and slacks (working) but will change to shorts or less when I get home.
That would be appropriate here, too, though we're not quite that bad. Only 84 but very humid. I'm wearing a golf shirt and slacks (working) but will change to shorts or less when I get home.
For the record...I did not ask you what you were wearing. ;) However, now that I know this, I may be inclined to ask you once you get home! lol!
Good question and thank you for asking. I think I asked it once this week. I agree the room trolls ( I just learned a new term thanks!) have put a negative spin on this seemingly innocuous question. I am a male and as such am programmed to respond to visual sexual ques. It's been that way since we walked upright. Though originally it was physical traits that would visually attract a male (large breasts for feeding children and wide hips for childbirth). As we "evolved" cultural norms reprogrammed us to add other ques to our list of positive stimuli. Bright colors, form fitting clothes, articles that accentuate the female form. But in the end the male is still visually stimulated sexually. As long as I am not crass or disrespectful in how I ask that question I think it unfortunate that i may be view as less than sincere or shallow.
When I have asked this question of my cyber lovers it has been so that I may help create a scene that is as real to her as possible. I didn't care if she was wearing a white long sleeve T with sports socks. I can work with that. I want to be in her "here and now". And being as accurate as possible helps. If she wants to take it to the fantasy side and tell me she is in stockings and garter great as well.
I apologize for all the trolls. I get it really. But I do not apologize for just being a man and it does hurt a bit when I see this topic come up in chat rooms in a belittling way. I am always respectful and courteous as well as sensitive to the women who have blessed me with their affections. (Climbs off soap box).
5 lol.
Now when I think of it it's a very stupid question, I don't know why I find it interesting. Is it bad if I am turned on when girl tells me what shes wearing?