Hmmm I've learnt a lot and cannot pinpoint it to just one.
Surround yourself by people who have qualities you admire - it will make you a better person.
You will never know just how strong you are until you go through difficult times.
People will walk continuously in and out of your life. Cherish the good times and the good people. Learn from the bad.
Every bad relationship, whether it be friendship or more will teach you something. Make sure you learn from it.
It is easy to wallow and feel sorry for yourself, it is harder to pick yourself up and try again.
If everything in this life was easy, you would never appreciate it.
People will always judge you, use the negative comments as fuel to prove those people wrong.
Not everyone can handle straight talking people, but if they then they shouldn't be apart of your life. Sometimes the truth hurts but its better to find out sooner than later.
Life is far too short to make all the mistakes yourself. Learn from the mistakes others around you make.
There is only really one person you can rely on and that is yourself. As much as your friends and family care for you sometimes life just gets too busy. Make sure you can pick yourself up if nobody else is around.
I'm sure there is more but I've bored you all enough!... Sorry
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BustyMinx
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 38
United Kingdom
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Quote by Fenton
All of these positive answers make me want to try doing it. Are there any suggestions of how I can without getting a kick in the goolies if she doesn't like it?
Start by tapping her clit gently at first, if you do it repeatedly it should have an affect just like you would if you was tapping a table. If she responds well then increase the pressure slightly. It is trial and error, seeing what turns her on or not.
For me, I quite like the whole pleasure/pain thing so I can take a few hard slaps.
Biggest thing is, relax and don't over think go with whatever your mind wants and don't rush it
Watch some porn, read a story, recall memories of great sex, fantasise over someone you are attracted to.
For me I ove having my tits played with and my nipples pulled, so I do that with my free hand and I tease my pussy by touching other parts of my body slowly making my way to my lips, by this point im pretty wet and I run my finger up and down my slit then using another finger I play with my lips. I also tap my clit,I love the vibrations. as I get ore excited I tap it harder repeatedly, sometimes spanking it. Depending on how horny I am then I slide 2-3 fingers in whilst my thumb rubs my clit.
1Zratedgirl is right though, it is about being comfortable with your body and finding yourself sexy
Watch some porn, read a story, recall memories of great sex, fantasise over someone you are attracted to.
For me I ove having my tits played with and my nipples pulled, so I do that with my free hand and I tease my pussy by touching other parts of my body slowly making my way to my lips, by this point im pretty wet and I run my finger up and down my slit then using another finger I play with my lips. I also tap my clit,I love the vibrations. as I get ore excited I tap it harder repeatedly, sometimes spanking it. Depending on how horny I am then I slide 2-3 fingers in whilst my thumb rubs my clit.
1Zratedgirl is right though, it is about being comfortable with your body and finding yourself sexy
I only date older men. He generally has to be at least 3 years older than me I think my cut off limit would be 7-8 years older than me because at that point I think what you want in life is very different. Saying that I did date a guy briefly that was 15 years my senior but it was just a fling.
Older men have the maturity, the intelligence, have seemed to have worked out what women like and they don't get freaked out when I tell them I have submissive tendencies. Older men can keep me on my toes and keep my mind as well as my body stimulated.
Guys my age and younger are simply about getting their leg over and even then they don't tend to be great at that.
Older men have the maturity, the intelligence, have seemed to have worked out what women like and they don't get freaked out when I tell them I have submissive tendencies. Older men can keep me on my toes and keep my mind as well as my body stimulated.
Guys my age and younger are simply about getting their leg over and even then they don't tend to be great at that.