I've had a ffm 3some a 3 times my hubby n I with a freiend. Good experience but it did change the friendship. Your marriage HAS to be strong enough to take it. We have been looking to do it again but it is very hard to find a third willing woman. We would like someone we don't currently have a friendship with, but as I said that is proving to be hard to find. If anyone has a suggestion please let me know :-)