I do have to be careful with my wife because she has said that at times it feels too large to her for comfort. Long before we met, though, she had sex with a guy who was about 11". She decidedly didn't like it and refused to ever have sex with him again...or anyone else that long. All she could remember of the whole thing was that it hurt, no matter what he did or how he did it, and she was even very highly aroused before penetration. The measurement is from base to tip and she and one of her girlfriends did the measuring.
I've heard a lot of women saying that they prefer to have a man who is at least average length. That's all fine and dandy, but what is average length? I mean, technically in the US, 6-7" is supposed to be average. I'm 9 1/2" and have always thought that I was below average because quite a few guys are an inch or two longer, or more.
Thinking of all the men you've had, from your personal experience, what would you say is the average length?
Other than my wife, the very best sex I ever had was with a woman who wasn't especially attractive on the outside. She had a totally wonderful personality and in bed, it didn't matter who she was with, she wanted them to enjoy themselves as much as possible. She actually got very excited by getting her partner off, so her goal was never, ever to have an orgasm. If she gave a guy an orgasm, it was almost guaranteed that she'd have one. The most beautiful woman I ever had sex with could have been a model. She was drop dead gorgeous. She was also selfish, shallow, conceited and only thought about what guys (or gals) could do for her, never what she could do for guys (or gals).
At the time, usually no. Later, possibly. Most of my stories are based on real life experiences and remembering them does turn me on.
By the way, I'm also saying 'average' in looks, not ugly. Thus, it is the perfect face and body combination vs. a person who probably wouldn't stick out in a crowd but who also doesn't leave you running for the hills.
Situation: You are out in the woods on a picnic or just enjoying the day. You go on a walk and come upon a couple fucking in a clearing, in the open and about 20 feet away. It is obvious that they know that they could get caught and either don't care or get turned on by it. What would you do?
A. Watch, but where they can't see you.
B. Watch, in the open where they can see you.
C. Move a little closer to get a good view of what they are doing.
D. Ask if you can join in or offer.
E. Leave as quickly as you can.
F. This has happened to you.
How important to you are a person's looks, in regard to having good, enjoyable, satisfying sex?
I think it is normal to fantasize about women who are beautiful and sexy, at least for me. But my own experiences have been that women who are a little overweight, average or plain in the face or who are quite average in every way tend to be much hotter in bed. I'm not sure why, but the super sexy and beautiful women seem to be a lot more selfish and self-centered. I personally believe that if one partner is doing their best to totally satisfy their partner while the other partner is also doing their best to totally satisfy, the result is almost always great sex. Thus, one of the last things I consider is how a person looks. That ranks very low with me, as do how they dress, what they do for a living, how much money they have, or other things like that which have nothing to do with sex.
No, I haven't, except for when I worked from home. When I worked at home, yes, yes, yes.
We've had FFM and MMF, but there isn't much preference. Like with Pegasus4, my wife is bi and my biggest goal is always to satisfy her as much as I can, so whatever she is in the mood for is fine with me.
Fairly often and my wife is checked more often, simply because she is in the medical industry and it is routine testing. Neither of us have ever caught anything.
How many of you have, plan to or fantasize about being video taped while having sex? I suppose that pictures would count, too, though it isn't quite the same thing.
How many of you gals have fantasized about having sex with a total stranger or while wearing a blindfold while having sex? How many have done it?
I have no problem at all with my wife having a bi lover and I've made that clear to her, as long as I know about it (no sneaking around my back and that works both ways). In fact, she discovered that she was bi when she invited a friend to come over so I could satisfy the girl. Her boyfriend of 12 years apparently had a short fuse and he wasn't into oral sex, except for her sucking his cock. I was well on my way toward taking care of the girl when my wife came in to see how we were doing, because she was curious. My wife got so hot watching me do to the girl what I normally do to my wife that when I suggested it, my wife joined in. She got her first taste of pussy and has been bi ever since.
It was also the woman's first bi experience and the two of them had a lot of fun exploring. It simply made my wife that more sexual and sensual.
We love it outdoors, especially when there is a good chance that it can be seen. A few times, it has been, and that was incredibly hot.
I was the jealous sort and so was my wife, until we decided to try an open relationship and include others. Once I knew that she wasn't going to leave me for another guy, even if he was great in bed, there was no longer a reason to feel jealous. Once she saw how eager I was to be with her, she stopped being jealous, too.
Rude, inconsiderate people who think they are the best thing that ever lived on the planet. I don't mean people who are self-confident, I mean those who are full of themselves and think it is okay to do anything they want because they are all that is important.
Nine inches, but only when I'm excited. lol Neither big nor small, but that also isn't the only part of my anatomy that I use during sex.
Before I even knew that it was among the top 10 fantasies for women, my wife and I were doing that, though always were we wouldn't get into trouble for it. She would be far too embarrassed to do it knowing that someone WAS watching, but it is a huge turn on for her to do it when someone MIGHT see it. One of our favorite places has always been out camping, then we either do it in the tent with the flap open or find a secluded spot where someone could very well come along. It has happened a few times, too.
I would and have, on more than one occasion. It has always made our sex better and it has eliminated the ugly head of jealousy. It has also helped my wife to be more appreciative of how I make love. That is no slap. I know what my wife totally loves and other guys don't because that takes time and experience, so no matter how good the other man is, when she and I again have sex, the results are almost always explosive and fantastic.
I love licking even if that is all I get to do. I love the look, smell and taste. I do occasionally like sucking on a beautiful pussy, though.
I definitely prefer bare, both for the looks and because I don't like straining hair between my teeth.
