For me, it was more giving than receiving. But, that's the idea............ isn't it?
Thanks Lush, I just checked it out. I have modified my style based on reading and discussing the topis with diffenet women. I'm a firm believer in the soft touch and gentle stroking. I love spending time "DOWNTOWN" so searching for the G-Spot is always a thrill.
Recently, I had a conversation with a few women. We got on the topic of men placing their fingers inside the vagina. Most of them stated that it was enjoyable, but that most men don’t do this correctly. The census was that men use their fingers as projectiles and use too much force. These women said they love the rubbing of the clit with some fingers, but have some different reservations about insertion. So ladies, what you think? How can we, as men, improve ourselves?
LN, I have to admit that I to, like to see two beautiful women kiss. I think there is something , or "naughty" about it. Women have sex in a total different way that men do. I have never, EVER, encouraged my lady to kiss another woman. But if she wished to do it, then I would not have any objectives about it. I'm not one of those typical guys that wants two women to one man. I just find the idea of women doing physical things with other women a turn on. Men are all about fast pace and rapid fire when it comes to sex. But for some reason, women tend to take their time and enjoy the soft touch of one an other. If ladies wish to become gay over this, then so be it. If you are like most of the ladies I run into, you have no desire to turn to the other side. But enjoying the touch of a beautiful woman is something special. Get a chance to truely watch two women "make love" and you may change your mind.
Women are complex and exotic. Women can multi-task as where men focus on one item at a time. I believe that a woman can sleep around and still love someone else. Look at men who cheat, most love their wife and or girlfriend. It's about the SEX and not love. Yes with sex their is love and emotion, but take college kids for instance. They sleep around and have free sex because it's fun and it feels good. I know this will not help your situation, but I do understand. I have been there before and it's hard to deal with. I would have to say that the "old fashioned" life style may not work for everyone. No one wants to hear that someone they love is going out and having sex with someone else. Good luck myfriend and Godspeed.
Yes I do watch PORN. About two of three days a week, depending on my schedule. Sometimes with my girlfriend. She says she likes porn and I know she watches when I'm not there. I do agree with people that PORN can destroy a relationship. However, this is 2007, it's not as Taboo as it used to be. I'm a fan of porn that shows ladies faces and real female orgasms. I watch mostly lesbo porn.
As an Adult male with a fair amount of relationships under my belt, I can only say one thing. Cheating is only bad if you find out. After I was cheated on, I told all my next girlfriends that they could cheat all they want. I just didn't want to know about it and I did not want to find out about it. I'm a very open person and believe that variety is the spice of life. If a lady wants to have sexy with another man or woman than it's ok. Just tell me a head of time. Then it's not cheating. Jealousy is NASTY and causes people to be mean. Most men think they can handle multiple women, but that's usually not true. I do believe that women can love more than one man with 110%. So if you are worried about your lady cheating, give her some room and let her do what she wants. After all you may reap the benefits. Experts say that when women have sex, they want MORE sex.