My wife of 25+ yrs hates tasting herself on my face/lips after I go down on her, and on my penis after I have been inside her, and would refuse /shutdown activities which would involve contact with the affected areas {we have not crossed the anal 'divide', yet }.

Recently, in the mist of some serious passion and after drinking a fair amount of wine, she initiated sucking my cock after had been in her {but no cum from me}. She didn't "blink" at the time, and only realized what she had done, when I thanked her profusely for same afterwards.

With that, I thought that she had overcome her hang-up /refusal.

This morning, again her being inside her {again no cum from me}, I asked her to give me oral. She strongly objected.

Quite honestly, after having experienced the "good stuff" I am frustrated and really want the new 'mode' to continue.

So, I am looking to find online resources which could help her work through her "barriers", if that is possible.

I would appreciate all advice/links that you all can share.

Binky