Hello my name is Ben...thanks for stopping by..Intelligent Ladies are always welcome to whisper......That being said, if we are chatting I will give you my full attention and I expect the same from you. If your busy chatting with others, no problem. We can chat another time.

Hello everyone, a friend told me about this site. So here I am to make some good friends and
spend some time and see what kind of fun I can get into. I`m a 48 year old professional black male.

I am a very sensual and caring man, I lost my dad a long time ago. I have 2 brothers younger than me. We all support my mom now and take care of her.

To be sensual, I think, is to respect and rejoice in the force of life, of life itself, and to be present in all that one does, from the effort of loving to the breaking of bread.

Favorite Quote: It was the wildness of it that got me going: the primal lust, the sheer needs of two people in heat, quickly finding ways to express their sacred hunger to each other in animal passion.

PLEASE...before you contact me at least have some kind of bio on your page. I do not correspond with RED silhouettes. I`m here to interact with others and make a few friends. If we are friends and we dont say hi from time to time I will probably delete you....no harm intended.
If you are of the species of egotistic, egotistical, narcissistic, vain, vainglorious...Please leave my page NOW!

Take care and enjoy the time on this earth we were given.



Interests
I love anything outdoors, camping, hiking, boating and fishing. I will get back here and update soon.

Update 10/29/18 -This is just an observation, a lot of the time I see the same folk on here ALL the time. Makes you truly wonder about the life they live. I find it truly weird by looking as some profiles that some say they just got here. Thinking to myself they never revisit there profiles - seeing that they have been here for a year or more.