I'm Married, Bi, 6' 2" about 225#'s Wearing shorter Brown hair now graying, always wear a beard or goatee, since sophomore year in High-school.

I learned Taoist Sexology and Tantra in High-school and College, and Taught Tantra with my first wife in Grad-school, we were swingers too. Then after we married and we were expecting our only child, she became a "born again christian zealot - and cut all ties we had with friends in those aspects of our life. That marriage didn't last long.

I went back to finish my MFA, and I dated a lot. Found that I was being hit on by guys, frequently - but, I always responded with: "Thanks, but No Thanks..." Yet I was also, always a bit curious at the prospects, I just didn't find guys attractive. Not that way... Finally One guy - a mutual friend of some married friends (we knew each other for a year or so) He said after hitting on me and my usual response; "That wasn't a No,"
I decided to let him seduce me. He was taller than myself, he was 6' 6" and I enjoyed the way I felt, taking on a receptive role for a change - taking the feminine role as in Tantra. I was appreciative for his patience, perspective, and persistence...

I remarried, then, had a mid-life crisis last year, my eldest brother passed away just before my 50th birthday. I had plans for a black birthday with a coffin birthday cake etc..., but family asked me not to throw it in respect for my deceased brothers memory... I shouldn't have listened . It ended up that I had to move out for a few months. The end of Youth and the birth of old age...

Interests
Many, various... shrugs