Personally I HATE high heels during sex. Sometime they may look hot sure, and a woman can certainly turn up the heat in them at times too. But once the clothes start coming off, those heels better be on the floor too.
Turned down yes, too many times - YES. Gone someplace else? Well if Lush counts then yes. If looking at porn sites counts then yes. But have not physically gone someplace else.....YET
Oh by all means going down on a woman is something I enjoy. I can spend a pretty good amount of time down there trying out lots of different tricks. My personal opinion, I should make you either cum first that way or work you up so much that you wont let me finish you there and we move onto other enjoyment.
Yep - young love.