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BelCantar
4 weeks ago
Straight Male, 73
0 miles · Rainbow City

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When I'm having sex, there is a great moment when semen gathers in my prostate and moves into the channel, ready to be ejaculated. I'm not ejaculating yet, there is no cum. It's all happening deep inside me, somewhere between my prostate and my penis. Interestingly, my wife seems to pick up this moment. Her breathing becomes heavier, as if in expectation of impending cum. This happened with other partners as well, but I'm not sure how general it is. In some mysterious way, women seem to know what goes on deep inside my body during intercourse. A more outspoken partner said she could always feel inside her vagina that my penis changed shape and it was a great feeling to know semen was on its way for her.

Do you girls pick up the moment when cum is about to come inside you ? Do you get this advanced warning through your vagina ? Or is it an indirect communication, like hearing your partner, or feeling his accelerating rhythm ? Perhaps it's all of the above.
Girls are full of mysteries -smile
Quote by LustLandSlut

it is basic instinct for women to desire being penetrated [...] and I’m no exception to the hypothesis


I can relate to this but I had to explain in an autobiographic True Story. I hope the moderators will approve it.
I used to be just like you depicted. There was a basic instinct telling me to fuck (if I had an opportunity). I had phimosys, so I felt no immediate pleasure by putting my penis into a vagina. Instinct told me I just had to do it. My partners enjoyed intercourse more than I did, which was sometimes annoying, but it also carried the promise of a repeat performance. When I started to have sex, I was completely surprised by the intense reactions of my female partners. Sometimes I'm still surprised now, when I'm 68.
How do I attach a picture to my reply. I got it as a PNG file on my hard disk.
I can see the "mountaintop" icon, but that merely adds a pair of matching [img] tags into the hypertext. That doesn't specify the name of the PNG file I want to post. Do I need membership higher than Bronze?
Quote by Ls63563
I hope so, otherwise these jeans are uncomfortable for nothing.


I'm an empathic person, and a cameltoe turns me off, because I automatically assume the material feels uncomfortable inside the slit. I'm willing to change my opinion if girls reassure us they find pleasure in a cameltoe.
Jeans will probably please only a tough pussy.
Quote by IMPÜRETHOUGHTS

I still like penetration after clitoral orgasm.
I'm greedy.


I had the same experience with the (few) women I slept with.
Women are telling us loud and clear we can't just have intercourse without clitoral arousal first. For us men this takes a bit of mental effort. After all, there is nothing in our male instinct telling us to play with that little nub. I only learned it by paying attention to the reactions of my girlfriends. It was worth it :-)
Quote by Beffer
I'll take what cums.


A witty pussy is more arousing than any photo.
I was a teenager when I measured and I was 18.5cm which is about 7.5". It felt too big and I worried it would pop out on top of my swimsuit. That was 50 years ago.
These days I barely reach 5", but it depends on the occasion. I'm sure my wife would prefer an extra inch, so I could get around the bend more often inside her, but our sex life is still better than 43 years ago when we started.
Facial expression, then her waist. I was a shy boy when growing up, so I felt insecure face to face. That's why I seldom looked at her breasts. I compensated by looking from behind.
I've been lucky with my girlfriends. After paying proper attention to their clits, they all expressed a desire to have something inside. So my penis received a welcome reception and we worked together towards our orgasm. Succeeding at the same time created such a deep bond.

But does clit always lead to vagina? Do you girls ever feel that a clitoral orgasm is quite sufficient? Assume you get highly aroused through clitoral foreplay. Do you prefer to continue towards an orgasm from clit alone, or would you rather have him inside you?

Many answers are possible. For some girls, it could be an element of physical desire to get penetrated. For some, it could be the added intimacy of common pleasure. Or a combination of physical and emotional needs. At the other extreme, some vaginas may have no yearning for penis, but their owners feel grateful for the clit play and want to reciprocate. This is also fine with us boys.

Could be different every time, for every couple, but I wonder about statistical distribution. It may depend on both partners and the nature of the relationship.
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Quote by RikkiSue
Obviously, I don't have a cock. But a cock with a ring on it looks incredibly uncomfortable


A cockring sits at the base and acts as a mild stimulator. ( Some, like the Oh-rings have a head which stimulates the clit of partner. Great, mutual fun.)

The other kind is a glans ring, which fits into the groove at the base of the cockhead. Obviously, this doesn't go into partner, so please don't worry about metal inside.

For us men, both kind of rings can be quite pleasurable. After all, we are programmed to explore tight holes, so a bit of resistance is an reminder of our purpose in life.
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Quote by Georgiagirl25
just wondering what it is about sex that keeps you older men so involved with it?


Best sex of my life came when I was 60 (and she was 60 too!). I'm 68 now and I experienced a lot of personal growth in the last decade. Sex had a large part to play in it, but as always, there was emotion, personality and dynamics with partner.