No, it would not. I have been in relationships in the past where I have said to my ex-boyfriend(s) (at parties) "Go on, go fuck her I know you want to..." and they'd go off to another room and have sex and come back afterwards and be all like "okay we did... etc" and I wasn't trying to be mean, I seriously just wanted him to be happy. I have also been in 3-somes with another couple, not having sex with the man, no penetration, just foreplay and all that with both because they wanted me to join in, but I didn't have that great of a time. I mean, I felt like I was the 'butterfly' for the couple. *shrugs* I don't know, honestly.... I think one thing that is seriously missing these days in relationships is complete and total dedication and devotion. I am a very open person, but with the boyfriend I have now, as open as I am, I don't think I'd want to see him screwing another woman. I don't honestly think he'd have any problem having an affair, he told me he had a lot of affairs in his past with his ex.... and he explained why, and I understand why, because I am the same as he is.... we are a lot alike.... but, we both enjoy each other and we don't want any of that stuff any more. We have finally found that one person who does fulfill us completely... I am speaking for us both because he has said this to me. It wouldn't harm our relationship if I did have sex with him with another woman but I wouldn't get turned on by it... I don't even want it to happen. My man is a beautiful man inside and out, so loving and I think that if we did a 3-some with another women that he would hold the guilt and never forgive himself for it. He's just always trying to keep me happy, I can't see him ever wanting to hurt me in any way. If he ever did cheat, he'd do his damnedest to hide it that much I know for sure, for fear of hurting me.... but I don't have that worry. Thank goodness.
I'm not married, but when I was married I had sex at least once a day, sometimes twice a day. But, my ex-husband was a very sexual man. He would be happy if we had sex 4 times per day.
I, on the other hand, just love to be wanted, and cuddled... I love to have sex too, I am very sexual, but if the man I was with didn't want to have sex every day it wouldn't upset me. I would be fine, but in my lifetime I have never told any man that I loved "not now honey, I have a headache"... because to be honest, I could be laying in bed with the flu and I'd still want to have sex with my man!
1. Yes.
2. Any time.
3. Back Roads.
4. Intense.
5. No.
6. I've done it.
Interesting, I am going to have to try that the way that you do it.
I have had orgasms while doing kegels with a kegelmaster 2000. I don't think I meant to originally, it wasn't in my plan, but many times when I have used it, I have found myself being completely aroused. I have had that for over 2 years now, and just about every time I use it, I end up having an orgasm. At first, like the first few times I used it, I didn't, but then I had it on a very low spring setting, like the 2nd setting or something, but now I am at setting 8 or 9 I think and the pressure is very strong, so when I do them now, it's like a lot of resistance as I do the kegels, making my kegel muscles very strong but at the same time that same pressure is very arousing.
My kegels (without the kegelmaster) are now very strong indeed. I am sure I could easily have an orgasm by doing those alone now, but I haven't tried. However, tonight I will. ;)
I have also met some very beautiful older women in my lifetime. I am always amazed at the beautiful women that I meet, quite often they are vegetarians and into yoga, cycling or spinning. I was inside of Trader Joe's the other day with my best friend, and she pointed to a very beautiful woman who was walking around in the store in very skin tight aerobic type pants and a tight half shirt. The woman was tall, at about 5 foot 11 and had the most gorgeous curves. Her butt was the firmest that I have ever seen, round and sexy, her legs were fantastic! I saw her arms which were smooth and tanned and her hair was brilliant and shining. I would say that her hair was a dark blonde color with streaks of lighter blonde and darker blonde. Her face was really pretty, but I didn't look super close up because she was about 8 feet away, but I couldn't stop staring at her butt. My best friend said to me "There's my spinning instructor! That woman is fit!" I said in response "Well, I am amazed at her butt, that's for sure!" With that my best friend said to me "How old would you say she is?" I glanced over and then back and said, "She looks better than anyone else here, better than those 20 year old girls, I can tell she's not 20, so I would say 40, maybe 50?" My best friend looked at me and said "Nope, she's 75!" I immediately grabbed my cart and walked over to where she was and got a really good look at her. She looked amazing! I'm still in awe of the beauty that comes from working out and eating right, and it doesn't matter about age when you take good care of yourself.
I aspire to be so beautiful at that age! I'm more than half way there and not looking so bad myself....
No, I do not. I've tried to recall what it looked like, but I cannot.
I'm very lucky, and I'm not talking about just the money.... I'm talking about him loving me so much. :)
