I've been here around six months now. I thought it might be time for a profile update given that I know how things work around here a bit better than when I originally made my profile.

Mid-forties, husband and three children. My kids are still at home but old enough that they don't need tending to all day everyday. My husband's a great guy but he can't provide what I really crave even if he understood just what that is. Here just looking for an outlet for some latent desires of a more sapphic nature. I'm a bit Type A in most aspects of my life but a woman with a firm hand, a soft tone and a sharp tongue will melt my soul. Some inverted power dynamics will leave me breathless.

I'm not interested in men. While I do have a husband and do tend to his needs on a somewhat regular basis, and while that objectively makes me heterosexual, I've marked myself as Lesbian here. I was originally marked as Bi-Sexual. However, despite my profile warning males that I really had no interest in them, still the overtures came. Over and over. So I've changed my preference status to Lesbian with the hope that the message will now come across. We'll see; I'm not holding my breath.

I have my location set to Colorado. I spend about a third of the year a few hours to the west of Denver. The balance of the year I spend at our home in the Midwest. But I happen to like the Colorado house and the Colorado climate and environment better, so I set my location to Colorado.

A few things I enjoy: a well-dressed woman; a woman who cares how she presents herself to those around her; a soft, practiced tongue in my mouth; my nipples trapped between a pair of fingers or a set of teeth; a light slap or two over my clit just as I'm about the crest the summit. A few other things I like: check my media.