Um ... all I can offer is there is a big difference between lubricated and non-lubricated when it comes to getting busy ... and if you want her to offer some oral sex, do not use condoms with spermicide ... ick.
As for the "ribbed for her pleasure" ... can't say it does much for me. Thank god I'm past the days of having my lover need the damn things.
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Andee
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 50
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What's funny is that men who have not really researched the lifestyle think that it is all the sex and orgy all for their benefit. Many are hugely disappointed to discover that once they dip their toes in it, they learn that the women control most of the sexual power - and the vast majority of time, the lifestyle is about fulfilling her needs, not some randy opportunity to jack it into someone's wife. Guys like that are often shunned and, trust me, word gets around fast in the close-knit community.
If you want a better understanding of "swinging" I suggest you read the book The Lifestyle by author Terry Gould. The one thing that modern "swinging" is not is the stereotype of shag carpet basements and gold fish bowls filled with car keys.
If you want a better understanding of "swinging" I suggest you read the book The Lifestyle by author Terry Gould. The one thing that modern "swinging" is not is the stereotype of shag carpet basements and gold fish bowls filled with car keys.
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If you have the chance, search for a local lifestyle club (ugh...hate the term, but 'swingers'). A lot of women in the lifestyle are into exploring their curiosities in an honest way, not like the "bisexual cause guys love it" attitude of far too many young women today.
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I get totally aroused, thats why I write!
Perfect ...
I often have several stories going at once, jumping between each one when I get the chance. Most of my writing is done on the sly - trying to sneak a paragraph in here and there on the train commuting to work, a quick couple sentences at lunch if no one is paying attention. But the majority of it all comes out when I am already feeling aroused ... and that makes for better writing, I think.
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I have, but only because for most of the day my husband had been torturing my mind with incredible hot text messages, my male friend at work had been teasing the hell out me because of the outfit I was wearing and my panties were sitting on the front seat of my car in the parking lot because I agreed to go without. It was fucking hot...
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I go without panties every now and then. Sometimes an outfit just doesn't work with them on, no matter how much they advertise "invisible lines" ... and other times, I like to play the ultimate tease and torment certain men in my life with naughty little peeks or hints that the only thing between them and my pussy is their bravery.
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Stockings or thigh highs ... thanks to a male friend I have come to appreciate the incredible sexiness that results from wearing hosiery like that. Never ever been a fan of pantyhose, but I do occasionally wear tights in the winter with some of my dresses and skirts to work. Bare legs when weather permits.
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These days, just my earlobes. My belly button ring came out when I was pregnant with my second child. I had my left nipple pierced for a few years, but had to remove it do to health concerns. Hubby would love to have me redo it now that all is clear, but I think I'm past that point in my life.
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I lean more towards erotica to get me into the masturbating mood ... when necessary. I tend to be horny enough most days, so my imagination easily takes me to where I want to go. But well-written stories; love them. It's a big reason why I wanted to try my own hand at writing (I already try my own hand at masturbating on a regular basis).
In terms of visual porn, it needs to be at least M/F for me, sometimes F/F ... and there needs to be some context to it.
In terms of visual porn, it needs to be at least M/F for me, sometimes F/F ... and there needs to be some context to it.
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I'm not sure you would consider it a job or not - for me it's only a hobby, but there is a financial aspect to it - but I have been doing web modelling for almost 10 years now. For me, it's mostly a fun way to play with my hubby, enjoy some of my exhibitionist side and dabble with some sexual experiences.
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