How to find a girl that is into girls....

10 Mar 2013

So I am bisexual and have recently started hooking up with girls. Personally I am attracted to, non-butch lesbians (no offense to those that are, it's just not my type) but I when I am out at a bar I'm not the best at knowing which girls are also into girls. Any advice?!

10 Mar 2013

Quote by happygirl17
So I am bisexual and have recently started hooking up with girls. Personally I am attracted to, non-butch lesbians (no offense to those that are, it's just not my type) but I when I am out at a bar I'm not the best at knowing which girls are also into girls. Any advice?!

I don't know, but maybe posting this in the LGBT-Community-Forum as well may give you some of the help you seek.

10 Mar 2013

Go to a lesbian bar - if you don't know of any local ones, use an internet search engine - it's not a secret society. As always, just talk to people, that's the only way to find out for sure.

10 Mar 2013

Just talk to people and get to know them. They may be looking for you.

10 Mar 2013

If you have the chance, search for a local lifestyle club (ugh...hate the term, but 'swingers'). A lot of women in the lifestyle are into exploring their curiosities in an honest way, not like the "bisexual cause guys love it" attitude of far too many young women today.

"If you knew what you were doing you would probably be bored."

10 Mar 2013

I know just what you mean. The suggestions are all good. However, I have never been very good at reading the signals or lack of signals,from Women I find attractive.

I am sure I have missed any number of opportunities and some could have been life changing.

I do have one sexual female friend that is very special. I wondered about her for more than a year and she was doing the same. What a waste!

We will never be able to make up for what we missed.

Are you sure?