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The shower, of course. And the kitchen, if you want to work up a sweat in front of the oven while the bread bakes.
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This is such a great and valid post. One of the reasons I have such a small friend circle is because of how hard it is to come across articulate, passionate people who actually enjoy the syncrhonised sexual wordsmithy that is cybersex (though the term itself has come to sound quite pithy and casual). As Bethany said it, once you get good at it and can't find a person who's as good as you expect them to be, you end up having two to three parallel conversations, with at some point defeats the purpose and dilutes the pleasure of the experience.
I've also used this as a theoretical testing ground for both my writing abilities and sexual experiments; my real life sexuality has fed my abilities and inclinations here and conversations and dalliances here have also complemented and enhanced my real life sexual experiences in many ways.
I have had the good fortune of coming across friends and lovers here who've been fantastically sexually attuned, so the problem of one-sided conversations (in some cases as rude as having people reply in monosyllables and then log off once they've gotten off) is something that's carefully avoided. I'd advise assessing the other about their inclinations and abilities quite early on to avoid disappointment, because there are so many lovely people out there who can give as good as they get (and I believe the key is in giving, especially for men, since women are kinder, fairer creatures who almost always give as good as they get). Apologies for the ramble, but to sum up, I think it takes a good conversation to have good sex (cyber or otherwise), and since this medium is about words, it makes sense to share it with those who love words and their infinite capacity to inflict endless pleasure, rather than the monosyllabic orgasm-fix-chasers who prefer abbreviated conversations to full sentences and punctuation.
I've also used this as a theoretical testing ground for both my writing abilities and sexual experiments; my real life sexuality has fed my abilities and inclinations here and conversations and dalliances here have also complemented and enhanced my real life sexual experiences in many ways.
I have had the good fortune of coming across friends and lovers here who've been fantastically sexually attuned, so the problem of one-sided conversations (in some cases as rude as having people reply in monosyllables and then log off once they've gotten off) is something that's carefully avoided. I'd advise assessing the other about their inclinations and abilities quite early on to avoid disappointment, because there are so many lovely people out there who can give as good as they get (and I believe the key is in giving, especially for men, since women are kinder, fairer creatures who almost always give as good as they get). Apologies for the ramble, but to sum up, I think it takes a good conversation to have good sex (cyber or otherwise), and since this medium is about words, it makes sense to share it with those who love words and their infinite capacity to inflict endless pleasure, rather than the monosyllabic orgasm-fix-chasers who prefer abbreviated conversations to full sentences and punctuation.
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I love how overwhelmingly this forum seems to be leaning towards giving, more than being selfish.
I'm an empath, so my lover's orgasm (the more vigorous and intense the better), is a massive pleasure to experience (for me). My own orgasm is more like a punctuation to the experience than the main agenda.
I'm an empath, so my lover's orgasm (the more vigorous and intense the better), is a massive pleasure to experience (for me). My own orgasm is more like a punctuation to the experience than the main agenda.
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Sigh, this picture makes me want to go swim in the sea.
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My favourite would be Koh Lipe. Specifically Sunrise beach, which is the eastern side of the island, which is quieter. Perfect clear waters; the fish come right up to the beach almost, and perfect for swimming and skinnydipping. I spent a week there diving.
Not a picture I took, because I couldn't upload on here, but this is pretty much what it looked like:
Not a picture I took, because I couldn't upload on here, but this is pretty much what it looked like:
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Though doggie is always fun, I'm more of a deep penetration guy; I love having my lovers ankles (or the backs of her calves/knees) on my shoulders, her lower back lifted in the air, hips angled upwards as I thrust deep. Great for eye contact, and also looking down between us to see me coated with her cream and nectar. Always a favourite.
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I love tasting myself off the lips of my lover, especially when my mouth, lips and stubble are soaked with her come, letting our flavours mingle as we kiss and creating a flavour that is altogether new and special.
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My personal favourite ones always involve deep penetration, especially with my lover on her back, backs of her knees on my shoulders, hips lifted right off the floor/bed, foreheads/lips touching, my fists in her hair, hers on my back or butt, eye contact with a deep, vertical plough, with the occasional tug to my lover's hair to make her watch where we join, glistening. Also my favourite one to come in, because you feel the molten heat of it explode oh so deep inside, fill and then spill out the sides, while still moving. Lustful, sexy perfection in a position, with my lover folded in half. Someone here knows exactly what I mean 
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Oh totally and completely, the lips are are anchors while the other parts move..kissing is essential.
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Of course! It's practically an aphrodisiac. And sometimes just that little bit more fun when I'm wearing a two day stubble on my chin.
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To quote a Hispano-Arabic poem from the 1200s:
I will make love
with you,
but only if you hold me
so my earrings
touch the jewelry
on my ankles.
A fine line between the two, no?
I will make love
with you,
but only if you hold me
so my earrings
touch the jewelry
on my ankles.
A fine line between the two, no?
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I think the degree of mixing between the two depends on the connection with the person. But always— fuck.
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Okay that was an accidental multi-post; apologies for that. Though I've never received complaints about over-swirling so far.
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One of my favourite lovers is only 5' tall; I'm 5'9", so her height was just perfect to kiss her lips while I was inside her from behind. The fact that I could carry hear easily contributed to so many positions that were a tad bit harder with taller women. Short is sexy, in my book.