My only advice is to do it with someone who has a great deal of experience. Whatever you do DO NOT do anal with someone who has never done it before...
I just moved into a new building and would LOVE to make love standing up in the boiler room...where there's a chance someone might "walk-in" on us or better yet just hide and watch
I LOVE to watch and be watched! In fact, one of my fantasies is to be watched by a random stranger, such as the UPS guy, while my lover and I make love in the middle of the day
But of course, there is nothing more arousing than watching my lover masturbate his rock-hard black cock
Jillian22 I am sorry to say that I've been in your shoes and well....All I am going to say to you is "GO FOR IT".
And don't worry about all the haters on here. They've obviously never been in this situation. If they had been they would never have the nerve to blame you for not "pleasing" him right or not "talking" to him, etc...
You're obviously a sensuous, adventurous woman and whatever is going on in your bedroom is not your fault. So, please yourself first and the rest will fall into place....