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AjayP
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 51
Australia

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Is it possible that the women who despise such a terrible experience might shy away from even entering this forum which might make it statistically disproportionate. As a guy I have never met a woman who would like to do it to me. I accept this may be more a reflection on me than on women in general but there is definitely men women don't like doing it for.
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I know this forum section is in no way for any guys benefit so I am just lucky I stumbled past! I am standing here watching and can no longer hide this uncomfortable bulge in my pants!
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I lean towards curvy myself. As always it is what is on the inside not the out but yes, curvy girls are my weakness.
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I like it. It tells me she is in tune with herself and wants to get pleasure from the experience as much as I want to give it to her.

Ajay
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I think the first thing you can say to almost any question on this site is 'depends'.

If the thing my partner wants to try is to leave me and run off with another more stimulating man I might find that is something I am not fond of.

If it was to bring another sexy woman into her bed for her extra pleasure. Then that is a male fantasy so I think I would be excited.

So it depends.

I do think he should tell you though to keep encouraging you!

Ajay
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I like curves and shape. A ripe full peach type is my fav.
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Generally I prefer no tattoos. I think the canvas, as designed, is perfect just the way it is. Of course it is not a deal breaker as some women are so sexy the tattoo couldn't possibly detract from that.

Ajay
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I tend to need a bathroom when I wake up so those two images don't mix well for me. However.. the thought that a woman would want to do that for me of her own volition is exciting. Imagine a woman actually wanting to do that. Wow.

Ajay
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Quote by Aletheia
I love moaners, especially ones who are trying to be quiet, but can't!


You got it girl!
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Quote by DateKate
It usually feels like the guys who look the best don't know how to keep a conversation going

I tend to believe that everyone's eyes light up when you talk about something that they are really into. Perhaps everything that came up was not resonating with him. Or everything he tried wasn't resonating with you?

Ajay
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His reason is to better provide for the family. Another man could do that just as well as a woman. When he suggests wives is he thinking of you, your needs and the family needs or is he thinking of his own?

Counter with a suggestion of an extra husband.

Ajay
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I understand you must let a woman do what ever she pleases. I also believe what she does can be quite revealing about how she feels about me. I would let her and move on to a woman who didn't make me feel like that. She deserves a guy like the others on this forum not someone like me.
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My answer betrays how much I love it. My girl comes in 15 mins and then wants something else.. I wish I could do it for longer!
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It depends what you are talking about. For example:

As a team mate or employee I look for competence and a good attitude with a desire to help and willingness to do the glory jobs as well as the mundane ones.
As a friend she needs to be accepting, friendly and positive.
As a partner she needs to like me and be down to earth. She needs to care about herself and believe in herself. Selfishness is a turn off so she needs to be the opposite of that.

Prissy, needy and incompetence are a turn off at any level.

Ajay
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Quote by BethanyFrasier
If I watch porn, it's lesbian porn mostly, because the lesbian site I work for is full of it, but I also enjoy some cougar and amateur porn.


I love lesbian porn too.. what site do you work for?
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Quote by adele
As I was reading through this thread, I was thinking something very similar to what ajay said. so far, most of the women expressed an interest in the physical part of being a man for a day. while that also intrigues me, I would be interested in the mental thought processes a man has or goes through, such as what they are thinking when they watch porn, or why they feel having sex with twins is so hot, or why watching two lesbians making love is such a big turn on for them. I would also love to know just what they think happens in the ladies room that so many of them make female accounts just to get in there.

That being said, I do agree it would be interesting to experience what a male "orgasm" feels like. and I would love to try putting it into each place it can go, if only to see if I could figure out why some men seem to prefer oral sex to putting their cock in a woman's pussy... the spot it was designed to go into. and yea, the peeing thing would be great as well.


It can get kind of deep can't it. As a guy I watch women make out and it is a huge turn on.. mostly because I put my feelings into the story and imagine the women are thinking exactly what I would be... when I guess I will have to admit they are not... but it is a nice thought.

Ajay
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Yeah I would immediately put on some porn and start jerking off my cock smile I really want to feel what it feels likes for a man to blow his load. I hear that it is much more intense than a woman's orgasm, but how can anyone really know???


I thought your comment was interesting for lots of reasons but one is that you might find you look at porn differently too. I wonder how different men and women see porn?
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Quote by BethanyFrasier
I wouldn't sell mine to guys, but I have traded my panties/thongs with other bi-sexual women and lesbians I've met online.


Is that a common thing or very unique to a few women?
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Quote by 8ox8
I think it would be interesting to get a blowjob


Would you like her to let you cum in her mouth?
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Quote by Deviant_Slut
Yes many times. I am bi smile


This coupled with your sucking cock daily comment. Are you going for the perfect woman award?
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Quote by Deviant_Slut
When I was married I sucked off my husband at least once a day. Usually in the morning before his shower and in the evening before bed, if we didn't have sex.


Is it true. Do you really exist?
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When a woman is really into it her mouth is my favorite place to cum.
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I am not a woman (obviously) but I would be happy once a day. Instead of once a month!
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Quote by VanGogh
*knock me down with a feather!*

I have had some ongong chatting with a youngish dominating-confident-type guy - who is all over the fucking a pussy/ass hard (bdsm/forceful style) ... not to mention the get-down-on-your-knees-and-let-me-blow scenarios.

When I asked him about the reverse, going down on a pussy until the lady cums on your tongue ... his response was "You're going to have to REALLY get me going to do that"

So, my question is this to you guys .... is going down on your lady a turn off? (I'm kinda shocked at that one) Or is it something you warm up to over experience?

Eternally grateful for your input!

PA
xo


It clearly takes all sorts. Going down turns me on. .. I have a lot to learn from him. I never understand why but some women fall for men that make them work for it.
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Quote by courtneysdesires
Sinn Sage


She does it for me too.. After all your pics shared in the chatroom the other night I am detecting a nice theme.
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It's been a very long time since I've updated this post...

Thanks everyone for your input and advice. The marriage died off...I left and have now been separated over a year. He has moved back overseas to live with his mum and dad. In Australia you have to wait for 12 months to lodge divorce paperwork so that should come through any day now.

After all the discussions and arguments I decided I deserved better and did not want to spend my life that way. I have met a man who's responsible, supportive, caring, loving and we have a healthy, fulfilling sex life.

The best life decision I've made...I'm a million times happier smile

Alexa xox


Sorry I did not read this until after my last post.. Glad to see you made it work in the end.
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My husband and I have a great emotional relationship but when it comes to sex, it really falls short. We've been married for three years and we're both mid to late 20's.

We have sex once every three months, if lucky and it's been this way for 2.5 years. I've tried everything a can think of but it seems that he doesn't really like anything (including lingerie, costumes, role plays, sex anywhere but the bedroom, oral sex, toys).

I haven't let myself go, I still go to the trouble of trying to look and feel sexy every day.

He works from home so at times he might not shower for days and he will only brush his teeth if I mention it. Most nights I go to bed on my own. I know he's not depressed cos we've talked about this several times, it seems to have become a cycle.

It's getting pretty difficult keeping it together. I would never cheat on him but it's kind of hard to ignore my sexual needs...when a sexy guy walks by my hormones go crazy.

Any ideas? 


Imagine the same thing with the roles reversed. would that be normal and what advice would you give the man in that scenario? It would be a way to give yourself some advice.