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ATexGent
Over 90 days ago
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My vote is for a sexy MILF or a mature woman. My reasoning comes from my experiences. A mature woman knows what pleases her and knows how to please her lover. Younger women are normally learning what their likes and dislikes are, and rarely understand what it takes please a man. Most younger women can be great eye candy although their lack of experience can lead to learning moments for them, which can be a lot of fun. However, overall mature women use more than their bodies in bed, they use their minds to provoke intelligent conversations before, during and after love making which can lead to a more satisfying experience.
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Quote by ayorkiecharmer
It's an easy answer in my opinion. Three reasons: (i) it's and so feels naughty and makes me think I am with a 'bad girl'; (ii) it's incredibly intimate and requires a special trust between the two partners; (iii) the anus tends to be very tight and so the sensation is very intense.
Well stated from someone that understands anal sex! If she's into it, I'm more than willing to take her there. I love it because it's an act that goes beyond the norm and can be very erotic for both participants, if done right.
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Yes, I love intelligence in a woman. However, the first thing I usually notice in a woman is how does she keeps herself. If she keeps herself clean and presentable, she's my kind of woman. I've seen so many women who go out into public with their hair a total mess and dress as if the clothes hadn't been washed in months, not matter how potentially pretty should could be, it's a major turn off for me. I love a woman in a pair of tight shorts, t-shirt, and open toed shoes when weather permits. This way I can see her tasty assets; ass n' toes...
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Giving a massage can be erotic and relaxing for me. It gives me the chance to explore her body long before being sexual. You can find her erogenous and work them to your favor. Baby oil is the best to use for giving a massage because it will guarantee some wet and slippery fun. I enjoy receiving massages as well, but giving is most pleasurable for me.
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Quote by Bunny12
Here are a few articles I found that give the basics. I think the most important thing is to pay attention to his bodies reactions and combine the prostate massage with a blow job. Adding some toys like cock rings, prostate vibrators, dildos etc. can ramp up the experience as well. I find teasing and rubbing his hole till it just sucks my finger or a toy right in then begin massaging the prostate the way to go.
Most information recommends using a come hither motion with your finger as the best massage technique which is how I start but I find just pressing into it and rubbing in a circular motion better and change it up from come hither to circular to pressing and releasing works well. When his hole begins involuntarily contracting around my finger and his prostate is puffed up and throbbing that is a sign of anal orgasms which many can occur before the final explosive ejaculation. If you are really working that prostate good he will often just ooze cum during the process which I've been told feels like a long slow orgasm. I also like to keep the blow job going after the big eruption and sometimes get second and third smaller eruptions. I want to try giving a prostate massage while doing some sounding I think that will really blow his top!
http://www.eve.com.mt/2013/07/15/how-to-give-a-mind-blowing-prostate-massage/
http://niche-men-health.blogspot.com/2009/06/how-to-give-prostate-massage.html
I had pet that loved doing this to me and loved having her please me this way! It's like no other pleasure I've experienced in all of my years of sexual activity. Of course, she was greatly rewarded for pleasing me this way because she always knew I'd return the favor and please her...
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Quote by Beckey
Do you want your lover to feel your ass.
How far do you want her to go?
I've overlooked this question...Sorry Beckey! Yes, I love when my pet feels my ass! I encourage her to go as far as she wants. She can tease me, finger me, lick me or use a toy on me...
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Quote by Kimasa
I have had guys cum on my face and they've very much enjoyed making a mess on me. I'm ok with it if it's giving them a lot of pleasure but given the choice I would always swallow and lick it clean afterwards. Guys twitch a lot when I do that
Yes, the twitching is a good feeling while being swallowed and licked clean afterwards which often leads to more fun and pleasure for the both of us!
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I honestly love going down on a pet! I haven't had a pet that I didn't please orally before moving onto other forms of foreplay or intercourse. Like some posters here, I've had many pets tell me they've had male lovers that either didn't or wouldn't please them orally because they were not into it or were only interested in getting pleased themselves. But I find more satisfaction pleasing my pet as opposed to her pleasing me. Tying her up and orally assaulting her pleasure pot until my tongue and lips are numb really gets me going and will mostly likely please her...I've not had any complaints!
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I've always found Asian women to be sexy and attractive. When I spent a year in South Korea while I was in the military I had many fantasies of bedding a sexy Korean pet. However, I was married at the time so I didn't act on my fantasies. No regrets though. Since then, I haven't met an Asian pet that would get nekkid with me... :-(
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Quote by Mr6x6
Tho it happened many years ago, the memory is till as vivid today as if it had happened only moments ago. Absofuckinglutely amazing!!! Especially the moment when lady "A" deep throated me while lady "B" was rimming my ass. I do believe that is the strongest orgasm I have ever experienced.
This would be the ultimate BJ for me...
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For her, I always found it helpful to talk about it during foreplay, especially when the woman was inexperienced. When brought up outside the bedroom, it was always "no". However, during foreplay, my lovers were open to talk about it which usually allowed for experimentation with fingers or small toys. If she enjoyed the anal play, I would introduce the actual act of "anal sex" either at a later time or proceed as requested. The woman having an open mind and your willingness to gain her trust is paramount. Physically, you must use plenty of lube like Astroglide and take it slow. It's easy to get caught up in the moment and rush into anal sex, but take a deep breath and slow down. Patience is key and she'll tell you if she likes it and wants more of it!
For you, what applies to her above should apply to you as well. In fact, I had a lover refuse until she played with me first. Of course, I gladly accepted and she ultimately enjoyed both giving and receiving.
I commend you for researching the topic and asking before moving forward. Good to you!!!
For you, what applies to her above should apply to you as well. In fact, I had a lover refuse until she played with me first. Of course, I gladly accepted and she ultimately enjoyed both giving and receiving.
I commend you for researching the topic and asking before moving forward. Good to you!!!