I'm a happily beared man
my fiancée thinks my beard is sexy and I've joked with her about shaving it and she gets mad :) it's so cute. Me: "I'm gonna shave my beard if you keep up with that attitude"
Her: "DON'T YOU DARE." Or she'll say "Ok I'm done with my attitude."
But I agree with the fact it's all depending on the guy and the beard style and the grooming of it